Gay couples hopeful

New state lawmakers expected to quickly legalize civil unions

“We want to be like any other couple and walk down the aisle and say ‘I do,’” says Amy McClintock. Civil unions and domestic partnerships are not the equivalent of marriage, she said. McClintock, left, and partner Cindiman Pinneke prepare dinner in their Durango home. Enlarge photo

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“We want to be like any other couple and walk down the aisle and say ‘I do,’” says Amy McClintock. Civil unions and domestic partnerships are not the equivalent of marriage, she said. McClintock, left, and partner Cindiman Pinneke prepare dinner in their Durango home.

DENVER – When the love of her life was in an urgent-care center in Farmington, Amy McClintock rushed in, only to be stonewalled at the front desk.

There’s no one here by the name of Cindiman Pinneke, she was told.

It was only after McClintock called her partner’s cellphone that Pinneke was able to peek her head around the corner and invite McClintock back.

“That potentially could have been a disastrous situation had Cindiman been incapacitated. That kind of discrimination is absolutely unacceptable,” said McClintock, who lives in Durango.

It’s the kind of situation a civil-unions bill that will be introduced Wednesday in the Colorado Legislature is designed to avoid.

With the Legislature now firmly in Democratic control, it’s a sure thing that Colorado gay and lesbian couples will soon be able to enter into civil unions to help them share property, children and health-care rights.

But the long-sought goal for same-sex couples in Colorado is being overshadowed by events in Washington.

In the spring, the U.S. Supreme Court will take up two cases that could determine whether states like Colorado can ban gay marriage.

Meanwhile, other states are moving faster than Colorado.

Last month’s elections marked the first time that voters in other states – Maine, Washington and Maryland – opted to legalize same-sex marriage.

But in Colorado, the best couples can do in the near-term is a civil union. A civil union grants rights and responsibilities identical to marriage under state law, but the union is not recognized by the federal government for tax and inheritance purposes.

Change at statehouse

Legislators say they will introduce a civil-unions bill when the Legislature convenes Wednesday and pass it quickly.

The issue rattled the Legislature last year, when House Republican leaders shut down voting and killed nearly two dozen unrelated bills so they wouldn’t have to bring civil unions up for a vote.

Civil unions passed the Senate last year with support from all 20 Democrats and three Republicans. Only one of the Republican supporters – Durango’s Ellen Roberts – remains in the Senate, but Democrats retain their 20-15 majority and will have enough votes to pass civil unions once again.

In the House, Democrats now enjoy a 37-28 majority. At least two House Republicans also support civil unions.

Given the math, opponents have stopped arguing in public against civil unions.

Incoming Speaker of the House Mark Ferrandino, D-Denver, sponsored last year’s bill. In the days after the election, his email was filled with people asking him to sponsor a bill to repeal Colorado’s ban on gay marriage, but he said that’s not yet on his agenda.

“I don’t think we’re there yet as a state,” said Ferrandino, who will be Colorado’s first openly gay speaker of the House.

“What I want to do is make sure couples in Colorado, families in Colorado, have the recognition and legal protections that we can afford them under the Colorado Constitution. So civil unions is the right thing to do,” Ferrandino said.

Eyes on the court

McClintock can’t wait. She said she and Pinneke, who have been together for 18 years and lived in Durango for nine, will get a civil union. But she still sees it as a form of second-class citizenship.

“Marriage is the only acceptable form of recognition for couples, in my opinion,” she said. “It’s important that people know how diminished we are by not being able to marry.”

To that end, she’s optimistic about the U.S. Supreme Court, which will take up two cases this year.

The first case targets the federal Defense of Marriage Act, which prohibits awarding federal benefits to same-sex couples in states that allow gay marriage. It passed Congress by a wide bipartisan majority and was signed into law by President Bill Clinton in 1996. Clinton now advocates its repeal.

Plaintiffs in the second case seek to overturn California’s Proposition 8, a 2008 voter-approved law that bans same-sex marriage. Colorado voters passed a similar ban in 2006, so depending on how the court rules, Colorado’s ban could be overturned as well.

McClintock is feeling confident that the court will rule her way.

“However, it’s very frightening because it’s all or nothing,” she said.

Durango residents Laura Latimer and Ellen Paul got married in California before Proposition 8 passed.

Latimer is still interested in the politics of the issue, but often domestic chores and caring for their son take precedence, she said.

She has a ho-hum attitude about the upcoming civil-unions bill.

“I think we would sign up, get a civil union and then worry about who’s cooking dinner that night,” Latimer said.

jhanel@durangoherald.com

Amy McClintock, left, and her partner of 18 years, Cindiman Pinneke, take a moment to adjust some equipment before a trip to Durango Mountain Resort for a day of skiing before continuing on to Ouray for ice climbing. Enlarge photo

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Amy McClintock, left, and her partner of 18 years, Cindiman Pinneke, take a moment to adjust some equipment before a trip to Durango Mountain Resort for a day of skiing before continuing on to Ouray for ice climbing.

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Amy McClintock, left, says she and her partner, Cindiman Pinneke, have spent thousands of dollars in fees to secure legal protections automatically afforded to married couples. “We’re tired of being second-class citizens,” McClintock says. Enlarge photo

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Amy McClintock, left, says she and her partner, Cindiman Pinneke, have spent thousands of dollars in fees to secure legal protections automatically afforded to married couples. “We’re tired of being second-class citizens,” McClintock says.

“Any kind of civil union or domestic partnership is not the equivalent of marriage,” Amy McClintock said. Enlarge photo

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“Any kind of civil union or domestic partnership is not the equivalent of marriage,” Amy McClintock said.

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