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Friend’s wife wants texts kept secret
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Friend’s wife wants texts kept secret

April 27, 2026

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend and I have been together for a few months, and we’re great together. We have a mutual friend who is married and, in the past, showed…

Boyfriend’s problems pile up
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Boyfriend’s problems pile up

April 24, 2026

DEAR ABBY: I am a 59-year-old divorced woman living with my 54-year-old boyfriend. We have lived together for seven months. He purchased the home we live in. Since we have…

Presence makes potential suitor uncomfortable
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Presence makes potential suitor uncomfortable

April 22, 2026

DEAR ABBY: There’s a girl I really like, “Torie,” who has a certain enthusiasm for me that few, if any people, have had. I have taken her seriously, but she…

Man spends money meant for daughter
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Man spends money meant for daughter

April 20, 2026

DEAR ABBY: My oldest granddaughter will be looking at colleges soon. My son and her mother are divorced. My parents gave my son (their grandson) money to put away in…

Man’s online shopping drains patience
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Man’s online shopping drains patience

April 17, 2026

DEAR ABBY: My husband of 50 years sits in his chair for hours at a time making online purchases he thinks are a necessity or just plain intriguing. We get…

Flirty drinking buddy crosses the line
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Flirty drinking buddy crosses the line

April 15, 2026

DEAR ABBY: We were friends with a couple we met about five years ago. We went out together a few times and mostly saw them at our neighborhood bar. They…

Friend’s husband busy behind her back
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Friend’s husband busy behind her back

April 13, 2026

DEAR ABBY: I have a new close friend, and I am conflicted about whether I should inform her about her husband’s misdeeds. Before we became close, I learned he had…

Son keeps mom an emotional hostage
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Son keeps mom an emotional hostage

April 10, 2026

DEAR ABBY: My wife recently immigrated to our current residence in the U.S. from Canada. She has a 23-year-old son dealing with mental illness back in Canada. He refuses to…

A good friend told me I’m a fraud
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A good friend told me I’m a fraud

April 8, 2026

DEAR ABBY: A longtime friend recently accused me of lying about my education, and I’m still stunned by it. I completed my undergraduate studies in the U.S., earning a BA,…

Friends unaware of silent suffering
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Friends unaware of silent suffering

April 6, 2026

DEAR ABBY: I have a neurological disorder and can no longer keep up with my friends (who used to be my friends). I don’t explain the problems I have and…

Relationship has fluctuated over the years
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Relationship has fluctuated over the years

April 3, 2026

DEAR ABBY: I have a situation with this guy I’ve known for five years. We dated in the summer of sixth grade, but it wasn’t serious, and we broke up…

Mother wrongly blamed for calling police
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Mother wrongly blamed for calling police

April 1, 2026

DEAR ABBY: I have a grown daughter who is most likely an alcoholic. I am not a doctor, so I really don’t know. We live in different cities. A few…

Wife tells man he must accept infidelity
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Wife tells man he must accept infidelity

March 27, 2026

DEAR ABBY: My wife is having an affair with an old flame from when she was in high school. He was just released from prison after serving time for murder.…

Husband puts food above all else
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Husband puts food above all else

March 22, 2026

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married for decades. My husband, who has always been very overweight, has made many promises to remedy it with no follow-through. He…

Parents ignore older son’s request
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Parents ignore older son’s request

March 20, 2026

DEAR ABBY: I am in my late 30s. I live halfway across the country from my parents and don’t have the best relationship with them. I also have a brother…

Night spent in separate beds a revelation
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Night spent in separate beds a revelation

March 13, 2026

DEAR ABBY: I have been married 44 years and have always slept in the same bed with my wife. Last week, I caught a virus, and we decided that I…

Loose lips sink longtime friendship
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Loose lips sink longtime friendship

March 11, 2026

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend, “Wade,” and I were expecting our first child and couldn’t wait to tell the news to our family and friends. But my boyfriend can’t keep a…

Kind gesture blows up unexpectedly
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Kind gesture blows up unexpectedly

March 8, 2026

DEAR ABBY: Eighteen months ago, I was staying with my son and his family when they had a get-together with his wife, “Corrine’s,” father. His wife, Corrine’s stepmother, had just…

Mom on hook for son’s college loan
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Mom on hook for son’s college loan

March 6, 2026

DEAR ABBY: My son took out a couple of education loans, which I cosigned when he was starting college 10 years ago. A couple of years ago, I found out…

Man enjoys smooth silk on skin
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Man enjoys smooth silk on skin

March 4, 2026

DEAR ABBY: Since I was a small boy, silk fabric has always made me feel “safe.” I remember wearing tights in the bathroom in front of the mirror or under…

Book club crashers hijack meetings
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Book club crashers hijack meetings

March 1, 2026

DEAR ABBY: My spouse and I host regular meetings of a book club. It has been very successful; lots of people attend. We serve wonderful food and wine. Two attendees…

Girlfriend leaves amid man’s rough stretch
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Girlfriend leaves amid man’s rough stretch

February 27, 2026

DEAR ABBY: I’m a senior male who has been married and divorced twice. For the last eight years, I have been in a relationship with an amazing woman. She has…

Longtime girlfriend tired of competing
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Longtime girlfriend tired of competing

February 25, 2026

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been with my boyfriend for 17 years. He has a friend, “Byron,” whom he hangs out with multiple times a week, sometimes up to six days. Byron’s…

Bathroom guest leads to unfortunate incident
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Bathroom guest leads to unfortunate incident

February 22, 2026

DEAR ABBY: At a recent family gathering, my sister-in-law “Paula” asked my husband if she could use our bathroom. We have three in our home – one off the kitchen,…

Fifty years later, former couple cross paths
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Fifty years later, former couple cross paths

February 20, 2026

DEAR ABBY: I met “Bobbie” when we were in college in the early 1970s. We fell in love, got married and stayed together for seven years. Things changed; our divorce…

Woman finds herself drawn to her stalker
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Woman finds herself drawn to her stalker

February 18, 2026

DEAR ABBY: I am 57 and have never been married. I have had many relationships (some good, some bad). Although in the past I experienced heartbreaks, I am now open…