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Dating stumps young college girl
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Dating stumps young college girl

February 10, 2018

I have been asked out several times, and I feel comfortable going, but I feel dishonest when I don’t tell them that I’m 16. However, if I’m upfront about my…

Living choice causes family rift
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Living choice causes family rift

February 9, 2018

Ever since her mother (my daughter) found out my granddaughter wants to live with me, she has forbidden her to talk to me, and me to contact her. Her mother…

Car from son becomes burden
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Car from son becomes burden

February 8, 2018

During the last five years this “gift” has been nothing but a sore spot. If I get a ding from a parking lot, it’s my fault. If I let someone…

Wife wants to date others
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Wife wants to date others

February 7, 2018

I exercise six days a week, but I need someone to talk to, to share life with. I tell my husband what I do each day, but of course, there…

Father’s wife suffering depression
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Father’s wife suffering depression

February 6, 2018

She’s always putting the girls first and is stressed out because there’s never enough time in the day to do everything. From day one, I have made sure that I’m…

Gender opinions split family
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Gender opinions split family

February 5, 2018

Our family will never have the traditional holidays again because Alex doesn’t want his daughters, ages 13 and 10, around Frank. We are heartbroken, worried for our children and confused…

Woman gets used to not cooking
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Woman gets used to not cooking

February 4, 2018

I know this may sound terrible, but I don’t cook. My kitchen stays clean, and all I have to do is sweep the floor. Ronnie hasn’t said anything about my…

Second wedding confuses plans
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Second wedding confuses plans

February 3, 2018

I am the matron of honor and she also has a maid of honor (which I am confused about; can you have both?). She is still planning her destination wedding…

Pregnant woman fears job loss
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Pregnant woman fears job loss

February 2, 2018

I spoke with a co-worker who told me she had a similar experience when she announced her pregnancy. I work for a company with a “boys club” mentality, so I…

Graduate strays from family
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Graduate strays from family

February 1, 2018

DEAR ABBY: I’m an 18-year-old guy who’s having troubles regarding my family. My parents are divorced, and I moved out of my mom’s house after I graduated. After the divorce,…

Man’s drinking gets out of control
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Man’s drinking gets out of control

January 31, 2018

The problem is, Ben usually starts drinking about 3 p.m. at the neighborhood bar. I’m welcome to join him, but I prefer to work at my job or volunteer in…

Relative will not fund vacations
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Relative will not fund vacations

January 30, 2018

I pay her a bonus for every A she earns, and I also pay for her health insurance. While I gladly pay the college bonuses, I have misgivings about continuing…

Small lies cause rift in marriage
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Small lies cause rift in marriage

January 29, 2018

I have recently realized that my husband is an accomplished liar and has been from day one. To top it off, he lies about stupid things, which makes me wonder…

Reckless sister worries family
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Reckless sister worries family

January 28, 2018

This behavior is nothing like her. When she does take our calls, she lies about what she’s doing. We have caught her doing it, and so far we have just…

Mom rejects daughter’s sexuality
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Mom rejects daughter’s sexuality

January 27, 2018

DEAR NEEDS SUPPORT: What your mother may not realize is that children often know they are gay long before they find the courage to talk about it. Young people who…

Mistreated wife concerns friend
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Mistreated wife concerns friend

January 26, 2018

Unfortunately, he is disrespectful to his wife. He’s overly critical of everything she does. He has yelled and made disparaging remarks to her, to a possibly abusive extent. His wife…

Premarital celibacy worries man
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Premarital celibacy worries man

January 25, 2018

During a time when her mother became ill and sadly passed, Marie told me God had spoken to her and told her not to be sexually active anymore until we’re…

Guide gives child depression facts
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Guide gives child depression facts

January 24, 2018

Many times, parents tell themselves it’s just a phase their child will grow out of, but one in five teens is affected by depression. It’s important for parents to know…

Single mom in love with two men
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Single mom in love with two men

January 23, 2018

If I were to love Steve the way I love Rick or if Rick were to love me the way Steve does, the decision would be clear. I can see…

Man’s dream career is crushed
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Man’s dream career is crushed

January 22, 2018

My confidence is shaken, and I don’t know what to do. In my middle school years, I used to know what I wanted to do, but somewhere in high school…

Loans cut grandson’s inheritance
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Loans cut grandson’s inheritance

January 21, 2018

I am afraid his inattention to this debt will adversely affect my credit. I can make the late payment or pull the money out of my savings and pay off…

New couple changes friendships
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New couple changes friendships

January 20, 2018

When we first started dating we weren’t exclusive, and he hooked up with my best friend. We all go to school together and see each other every day. Since then,…

Man feels late to the dating game
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Man feels late to the dating game

January 19, 2018

I’m 29. I never had a chance to date in high school. My family farms, and when I was 14, my grandfather could no longer help my dad. Dad couldn’t…

Man endlessly puts off marriage
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Man endlessly puts off marriage

January 18, 2018

A year ago we discussed getting engaged. Spencer said he’d propose “sometime within the next year” and last spring it seemed like he was working up the courage to do…

Woman seeks to manage anger
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Woman seeks to manage anger

January 17, 2018

My other issue is road rage. When I’m behind the wheel and the cars ahead of me are going too slow or the drivers make stupid moves, I’m annoyed to…

Wife put off by husband’s beard
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Wife put off by husband’s beard

January 16, 2018

DEAR TOO MUCH HAIR: If your husband’s beard is so long it drags his food off his plate, the first thing you should do is suggest that he sit up…

Neighbor wants to help after loss
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Neighbor wants to help after loss

January 15, 2018

I would like to offer help to the father, but I don’t know how I should approach him or even if I should. Please offer me some advice. – Grieving…

Man drifts from grandparents
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Man drifts from grandparents

January 14, 2018

When he grew up he joined the military and met a girl on the opposite side of the country who he’s planning to marry. The problem is, she’s insecure and…

Insecure teen blames parents
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Insecure teen blames parents

January 13, 2018

I feel like everyone, including my closest friends, don’t like me or care about me as much as I care for them. I try to distance myself from people so…

Single mom above social stigma
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Single mom above social stigma

January 12, 2018

As a single mother with three children for 15 years, I made the conscious decision to conduct myself as I always had when I was part of a couple. I…