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Girls sharpen social skills
Dear Abby

Girls sharpen social skills

September 13, 2017

I am interested in ordering your booklet about popularity. You have such a good way with words, and I’m sure the girls would find it helpful and enjoyable reading. They…

Wife wants snuggles
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Wife wants snuggles

September 12, 2017

He says his mother was very cold toward him, and he was reared by his grandparents, who loved him, but were not “touchy-feely.” He treats me like a queen, Abby.…

Herpes infection keeps woman on sidelines
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Herpes infection keeps woman on sidelines

September 11, 2017

If I were to meet someone on one of those sites, when would be the right time to reveal my problem? After we have gotten to know each other? Or…

In-laws refuse to attend party away from home
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In-laws refuse to attend party away from home

September 4, 2017

During our entire marriage, anytime we invited my in-laws to birthday parties or other special occasions, they never accepted unless we agreed for the event to take place in one…

Adopted brother unaware of his origin
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Adopted brother unaware of his origin

September 3, 2017

From a health care point of view, I think my brother should know, but I don’t feel I have the right to tell him while Mom is living (she is…

Parkinson’s patient uneasy about diagnosis
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Parkinson’s patient uneasy about diagnosis

September 1, 2017

DEAR ABBY: I’m an active, 60-something wife, mother and grandmother who was recently diagnosed with early stage Parkinson’s disease. From all outward appearances, I appear healthy and I’m living my…

Mom wants to trust recovering addict ex
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Mom wants to trust recovering addict ex

August 31, 2017

I stayed with him for a year after I learned about his addiction. That year was the hardest year of my life. Choosing to leave was extremely painful, and I…

Son wants family to know transgender fiancée
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Son wants family to know transgender fiancée

August 30, 2017

I’m now living in the States and she’s still in the Philippines waiting for her visa. Emma is transgender and I don’t know how to tell my family. I love…

Readers react to usher’s ‘proposals’
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Readers react to usher’s ‘proposals’

August 29, 2017

Her parents should go directly to the minister and let him know what is going on. If the parents decide to tell the usher his comment is not appreciated, they…

Food comments ruin dining experience
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Food comments ruin dining experience

August 27, 2017

The problem is, it’s impossible to share a meal with her. As soon as the food is served, Charlene starts a constant commentary about “how big the portions are” and…

Woman worries about family’s verbal abuse
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Woman worries about family’s verbal abuse

August 22, 2017

At my boyfriend’s birthday lunch, his father called his mother the worst possible word anyone could call a female. My boyfriend and his sisters didn’t seem phased by his verbal…

Couple defines meaning of family differently
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Couple defines meaning of family differently

August 20, 2017

He doesn’t comprehend the need for my family to get together all the time and feels that during holidays it should only be us. When they are just trying to…

Man doubts self after being cheated on
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Man doubts self after being cheated on

August 18, 2017

What am I doing wrong? Fidelity is important to me, and they both knew it from the start. How do I avoid this? I have never been a controlling person.…

Pregnant girlfriend wants marriage
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Pregnant girlfriend wants marriage

August 17, 2017

With this pregnancy coming to term, I keep throwing hints to him about us becoming engaged, but he brushes them off. I know he’s the person I want to spend…

Mother continues affair with married man
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Mother continues affair with married man

August 16, 2017

This affair has been going on for years. I tried broaching the subject with her, but she said it’s her business and, unless I’m helping pay her bills, I don’t…

Parents disapprove of interracial couple
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Parents disapprove of interracial couple

August 15, 2017

When his parents tell him to break off relations with me, he listens patiently and defends his affection for me. He does not, however, speak up for me or point…