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Generous dad risks financial well-being
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Generous dad risks financial well-being

September 28, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My father, who is retired, has always had a big heart and almost no regard for himself. Anytime he meets someone in a tough situation, he does whatever…

Gay man hurt by hateful posts
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Gay man hurt by hateful posts

September 26, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am a gay man who has been with my husband for more than 30 years. He’s from a different culture, as are our now-grown adopted children. Most…

Siblings not interested in ‘party’ for dad
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Siblings not interested in ‘party’ for dad

September 24, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My father was a terrible person. He was physically abusive to his wife and kids, and he sexually abused both of my sisters. He was a vicious bully…

Job change falls heavy on family
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Job change falls heavy on family

September 21, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband, “Andy,” and I have been together 25 years, married for 16. We have three kids ages 14, 11 and 9. Our marriage has always been a…

Mom’s change in attitude stumps family
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Mom’s change in attitude stumps family

September 19, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My mom is in her early 80s. More and more often lately, she seems to be avoiding seeing me and my siblings. It wasn’t always like this. She…

New job requires people skills
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New job requires people skills

September 17, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’m a man in my early 30s who has made a career switch. My new field requires me to be more social because I will be meeting with…

Husband protests wife’s financial planning
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Husband protests wife’s financial planning

September 14, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been married for 19 years to my second husband, “Jack.” Our children are grown. When we met, I was a business owner, and he was retired. He…

Cousin mired in miserable rough patch
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Cousin mired in miserable rough patch

September 12, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I love my cousin “Carly” like a sister. We come from a large family, and both of us are estranged from our mothers (who are sisters) as well…

Boyfriend has personal relationship with boss
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Boyfriend has personal relationship with boss

September 10, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am a man whose long-distance boyfriend of one year has a married female best friend. (She’s his boss.) She is also a tobacco-addicted narcissist who drinks a…

Musical friendship has fallen out of tune
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Musical friendship has fallen out of tune

September 7, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have a friend, “Chris,” from our teenage days. We’ve been performing music together for decades. We live in different cities but get together every few years. Over…

Elderly couple receive bold request
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Elderly couple receive bold request

September 5, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am an 80-year-old man who is recently retired and in relatively good health. My wife is about the same. We recently received a request from our son,…

Teen punished because of orientation
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Teen punished because of orientation

September 3, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am freshman in high school, and I live with my stepmother and father. They are great parents to me and my little brother but very homophobic. I…

Widowed mom develops new interest
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Widowed mom develops new interest

August 31, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are in our 50s. For several months, I have been struggling with an issue I have with my mom. She constantly asks me how…

Neighbor suddenly a fixture in lives
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Neighbor suddenly a fixture in lives

August 29, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have a female friend, “Kylene,” who needs yard work done weekly. My fiance, “Josh,” goes over there to do the work for her. He charges $60. During…

Wife’s view of herself shrinks
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Wife’s view of herself shrinks

August 27, 2025

DEAR ABBY: About eight months ago, I stumbled on my husband watching online porn. He admitted to habitual use but said it was just a stress reliever and he would…

Nephew jumps from frying pan into fire
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Nephew jumps from frying pan into fire

August 24, 2025

DEAR ABBY: After their 25th anniversary dinner, my nephew “Will” was blindsided when his wife announced that she had never loved him and has been in love with her stepbrother…

Unhealthy lifestyle needs adjustment
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Unhealthy lifestyle needs adjustment

August 22, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’m in a long-term relationship with an incredible guy I’ll call ‘Jerry.“ We both have grown children, his parents and family are amazing, and we all get along…

Sister-in-law enables alcoholic husband
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Sister-in-law enables alcoholic husband

August 20, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My sister-in-law is her alcoholic husband’s enabler. He has health conditions that make walking difficult. He falls down often and can’t make it to the bathroom. Being drunk…

Brother’s good deeds punished
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Brother’s good deeds punished

August 17, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am a 67-year-old man who has two sisters. Recently, I was at my younger sister “Mitzi’s” house, installing some blinds. While there, I received a phone call…

Daily calls to mom wearing thin
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Daily calls to mom wearing thin

August 15, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am a 54-year-old mother of two, a wife and a full-time teacher. My days are long, busy and usually uneventful. Every evening, I am expected to call…

New habit has wife eyeing the exit
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New habit has wife eyeing the exit

August 13, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband is going to be 70 next month. He is in good physical shape but has taken up smoking marijuana every day. He says he is addicted.…

Nurse gets chilly greeting from new colleagues
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Nurse gets chilly greeting from new colleagues

August 10, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have been a registered nurse for 11 years. I am experienced in hospital floor nursing and clinic nursing, and I have always been well regarded in my…

Grandma ignores request not to drive around
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Grandma ignores request not to drive around

August 8, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are blessed with a 6-month-old son, “Tyler.” I’m now back at work three days a week. My mother and my mother-in-law offered to watch…

Man hopes statement isn’t taken wrong way
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Man hopes statement isn’t taken wrong way

August 3, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I recently reconnected with a woman I dated briefly in the 1980s and haven’t seen since. She’s around my age. We both were married one year apart, had…

Widow tired of being alone
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Widow tired of being alone

August 1, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband passed away four months ago. I miss him terribly, but I’m ready to move on. I want to begin dating, but I don’t know how to…

Husband’s about-face may be too late
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Husband’s about-face may be too late

July 30, 2025

DEAR ABBY: For nearly 30 years, my husband and I shared a close, trusting marriage. Months ago, I caught him lying about meetings he was having with a 35-year-old colleague.…

Grandparents overtaxed with child care
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Grandparents overtaxed with child care

July 27, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I love our 7- and 2-year-old grandchildren very much and enjoy spending time with them. The issue is, we feel we are being taken advantage…

Bully turns grandmother away from family
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Bully turns grandmother away from family

July 25, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My daughter has been married to her high school sweetheart for 15 years. Their marriage has been rocky from the start because of her husband’s “God” complex. He’s…

Chance encounter still burns
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Chance encounter still burns

July 23, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am a divorced man in my 60s. Twelve years ago, a neighbor woman who I’m attracted to popped into my house to have a smoke break out…