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Wife blames mother for infidelity
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Wife blames mother for infidelity

July 20, 2025

DEAR ABBY: When my daughter, “Trish,” and her husband separated, I reached out to each of them for occasional check-ins. Trish left him after confessing to infidelity via email. He…

Mother-in-law playing for keeps
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Mother-in-law playing for keeps

July 18, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am married to a man who is incarcerated. As you can imagine, it’s been hard on our family. I have two kids with him. I was pregnant…

Pregnant wife questions husband’s honesty
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Pregnant wife questions husband’s honesty

July 16, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married for three years. Most of that time, it has been perfect. Six months ago, we received some amazing news: We are…

Stressful time grows more confusing
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Stressful time grows more confusing

July 13, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’m 29 and in a 10-year relationship with my boyfriend, “Justin.” Things have been rocky since his business went under last year. For months, I have been working…

Parents won’t take ‘no’ for an answer
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Parents won’t take ‘no’ for an answer

July 11, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have suspected for many years that my son is gay. I don’t understand why he would feel he can’t talk to me about his relationships. I would…

New friendship puts marriage on rocks
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New friendship puts marriage on rocks

July 9, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am 57 and have been married for 32 years to my husband, who retired from his full-time job last year. I still work full time. Since his…

Voicemail reveals troubled relationship
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Voicemail reveals troubled relationship

July 6, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I recently received a voicemail from my brother that recorded a conversation he was having with his wife. It was clear he didn’t know he had accidentally dialed…

College grad treated like hostage at home
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College grad treated like hostage at home

July 4, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’m a 23-year-old college graduate who was lucky enough to land a job in my field of study. The job is located in my hometown. Because I couldn’t…

Frank conversation hasn’t paid off
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Frank conversation hasn’t paid off

July 2, 2025

DEAR ABBY: After years of disappointment, I finally found the man of my dreams. How do I tell him he isn’t doing certain things right in the bedroom without it…

Longtime marriage no longer pleasant
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Longtime marriage no longer pleasant

June 29, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have been with my wife for 40 years, including 32 years of marriage. I have done the best I could as a boyfriend, a fiance, a husband…

Fallout of breakdown continues
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Fallout of breakdown continues

June 27, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I live in a very small town. My husband died a year ago and, since then, I have felt like some of these people are angry with me.…

High school flame tries to turn up heat
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High school flame tries to turn up heat

June 25, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’m a 48-year-old woman. When I was 17, I hooked up with this guy who was part of my friend group. I knew he had a crush on…

Relationship appears to be leveling up
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Relationship appears to be leveling up

June 22, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am a woman in my mid-20s who has had only abusive, toxic and horrendous relationships after entering adulthood. Since high school, I have spent years trying to…

Divorcee has no desire to wed again
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Divorcee has no desire to wed again

June 20, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am twice divorced and recently celebrated my 61st birthday. I look pretty fantastic, and I’m in great health. My husbands were really great guys, and I have…

Ex-wife has held secret for 30 years
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Ex-wife has held secret for 30 years

June 18, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My ex-husband was found dead in his home three months ago. He was a bitter man who never forgave me for leaving him. We were divorced for 30…

Recipient responds to gift with sharp tongue
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Recipient responds to gift with sharp tongue

June 15, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I recently moved out of state. His only living relative, a sister, recently came to visit. She has never been married. She is a retired…

Man can’t brush off silence about treatment
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Man can’t brush off silence about treatment

June 13, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I found out that, behind my back, my best friend has been (secretly) growing hair for the past year. He knows I have been balding for many years.…

Colleague’s mockery hits a nerve
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Colleague’s mockery hits a nerve

June 11, 2025

DEAR ABBY: A few months ago, I found out my adult child is transgender. Nobody knows yet except for me, my husband and my other child. Until this year, I…

Toddler draws relatives’ rebuke
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Toddler draws relatives’ rebuke

June 8, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband’s stepmother passed recently after a long illness, and her children specifically wanted our family, including our 2-year-old, to be at her service. When we arrived at…

Need for healthy changes at odds with habits
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Need for healthy changes at odds with habits

June 6, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am struggling with a recent diagnosis of severe liver disease (nonalcoholic) and need to lose 30 pounds. I have had two bouts of cancer in five years…

Couple suffering amid loss of grandchild
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Couple suffering amid loss of grandchild

June 4, 2025

DEAR ABBY: We recently suffered the loss of our first grandchild. She was only 24 and taken far too soon. My partner and I are working through our grief, which…

Divorcee still in love with ex
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Divorcee still in love with ex

June 1, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have been divorced from my ex-husband, “Cliff,” for a year and a half. My nearly adult children live with me. They rarely see their dad. Our divorce…

Friend’s marriage a roller coaster
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Friend’s marriage a roller coaster

May 30, 2025

DEAR ABBY: A man I know has been married for 40 years. His wife gets mad at him for small things and stops talking to him for three to four…

Boyfriend lets sleeping dogs lie
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Boyfriend lets sleeping dogs lie

May 28, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am recently divorced after a 37-year marriage. My boyfriend, “Grant,” has been divorced for a long time. He is a lovely man – honest, intelligent, healthy, helpful,…

Daughters have clearly sided with ex
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Daughters have clearly sided with ex

May 25, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been divorced for 10 years and have since remarried. I began dating my current wife nine years ago. I have four daughters, ages 24 to 37. Since…

Time to air out dirty laundry?
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Time to air out dirty laundry?

May 21, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My late husband and I were married 38 years when we finally went to marriage counseling. I found out then that he had slept with my sister early…

Husband’s mom not wanted in picture
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Husband’s mom not wanted in picture

May 18, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have a full-time job and am in pretty good health. I have one son, “Brian,” who is married and has three children. My problem is that my…

Teen endures stepmom’s harsh treatment
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Teen endures stepmom’s harsh treatment

May 16, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My dear friend, “Sandra,” is married with two children. She and her husband have a 4-year-old son together and another son from her husband’s first marriage who is…

Seasonal soup ready for close-up
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Seasonal soup ready for close-up

May 14, 2025

DEAR ABBY: Years ago, I purchased your recipe booklet that had a very good recipe for gazpacho (no oil in the recipe). I no longer have that booklet. Could you…