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Mother left out of group picture
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Mother left out of group picture

March 5, 2025

DEAR ABBY: After being married overseas, my daughter recently held a wedding reception stateside. My husband and his sister were able to attend the wedding. I could not because of…

Attacks exacerbate loss of mother
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Attacks exacerbate loss of mother

February 27, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have two sisters. Our mother passed away last year after a bad fall. I was her primary caretaker and was with her every day. The other two…

Wife shocked by man’s infidelity
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Wife shocked by man’s infidelity

February 25, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for 52 years. While looking for a tax document, I found a manila envelope that had a note written on the outside. It said,…

Entitled attitude wears thin at home
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Entitled attitude wears thin at home

February 22, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am blessed with two sons who live with me. They are in their mid-20s. The younger one is an amazing young man. He’s strong, confident but not…

Family refuses to help relative
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Family refuses to help relative

February 22, 2025

DEAR ABBY: Eight years ago, my wife’s nephew needed a car. His parents had poor credit at that time. I took him to a car dealer, where he found a…

Drugs, lies pushing wife away
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Drugs, lies pushing wife away

February 18, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been married to my husband for 30 years. For the past five years, I’ve noticed that he is acting a little different. He’s lost a lot of…

Poor choices affect mom’s health
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Poor choices affect mom’s health

February 18, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I am a healthy older woman living alone in a building for seniors. I’ve known some of my neighbors most of my life. I consider us like a…

Relationship makes spouse uncomfortable
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Relationship makes spouse uncomfortable

February 18, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My mom and stepdad (“Hugh”) are divorcing after 20 years of marriage. Mom has been involved with scammers for the last two years, giving away money and her…

New boyfriend has wife fearing for marriage
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New boyfriend has wife fearing for marriage

February 11, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband, “Leon,” and I have been together for 13 years. He is bisexual – gay-leaning. I knew this when we got together. I am 51, and Leon…

Mother-in-law has been roommate for 14 years
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Mother-in-law has been roommate for 14 years

February 8, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have been happily married for 15 years. My mother-in-law, “Pat,” a widow since 1997, has lived with us for the last 14 years. She…

Man’s delusions put brother in tough spot
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Man’s delusions put brother in tough spot

February 6, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My younger brother, “Paul,” is 40 and in a rut. He became friends with a friend of mine, “Mitch,” whom I met in college. Paul also became good…

Two decades haven’t healed breach
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Two decades haven’t healed breach

February 6, 2025

DEAR ABBY: Twenty years ago, I developed psychosis with a personality change. I did things I’m ashamed of. I had an affair, remarried and moved out of the country, leaving…

Staying strong after breakup intimidating
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Staying strong after breakup intimidating

February 1, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I was dating a man for the past two years. Most of the time, we enjoyed being together. However, sometimes our discussions would turn into heated and hurtful…

Long friendship upsets wife
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Long friendship upsets wife

January 31, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband has a female friend he grew up with. They have exchanged “happy birthday” texts for many years. However, they have recently begun texting more often. An…

Friendship crumbles when truth emerges
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Friendship crumbles when truth emerges

January 28, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My friend of eight years has her 55-year-old son living with her. She has been driving a man around who she told me is a friend of her…

Wife finds attention elsewhere
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Wife finds attention elsewhere

January 28, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been together for 16 years (eight years married). When we were first married, we had fun. He used to take me out on…

Thankless weddings have worn thin
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Thankless weddings have worn thin

January 23, 2025

DEAR ABBY: A few years ago, we were invited to my cousin’s eldest daughter’s wedding. Although my cousin and I are close, I barely know the daughter. We were invited…

Sister’s fixation needs to stop
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Sister’s fixation needs to stop

January 21, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My younger sister and I were close growing up. We didn’t have many friends, but we were always willing to play games and have fun with each other.…

Friendship cools amid good fortune
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Friendship cools amid good fortune

January 18, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been friends with another couple for 15 years. We would see each other once or twice a week, alternating between each other’s home…

Office won’t contact correct parent
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Office won’t contact correct parent

January 17, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have four children, so there are many, many appointments to make and keep. We both have full-time jobs, so we split up the responsibilities…

Anger threatens to erupt
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Anger threatens to erupt

January 14, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I have anger issues that were passed down among the men in my family. My mother is a strong woman and wouldn’t let my father get away with…

Stepdaughter’s gift hurts feelings
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Stepdaughter’s gift hurts feelings

January 12, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My stepdaughter “Annie” gave my husband a photo album of his life for his 80th birthday. The album included pictures of his parents and grandparents as well as…

Widower badgers late wife’s friends
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Widower badgers late wife’s friends

January 10, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My friend of 30 years passed away two years ago. Her husband, with whom I had a cordial relationship, has been calling me and other friends of his…

Recovering alcoholic picking up pieces
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Recovering alcoholic picking up pieces

January 7, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I were together for 11 years, married for six of them. I had an alcohol addiction for the last few years, which led to my…

Wife’s natural hair color upsets husband
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Wife’s natural hair color upsets husband

January 4, 2025

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been together for 16 years and have what I consider to be a happy marriage. My question concerns ongoing conversations we have been…

Relative threatens to reveal secret
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Relative threatens to reveal secret

January 2, 2025

DEAR ABBY: I was raped by a family member and, because of special circumstances, told no one except one other family member, who I swore to secrecy. She recently got…

Hope and health for New Year
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Hope and health for New Year

December 31, 2024

DEAR READERS: Welcome to 2025. A New Year has arrived; the last one is safely behind us. As always, this New Year brings with it our hopes for a new…

Wife unhappy with ‘gifts’ – and giver
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Wife unhappy with ‘gifts’ – and giver

December 27, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My husband took me on a trip for my birthday this year, only he didn’t prepare for anything other than some sightseeing events. He didn’t help plan for…

Spouse wants in-laws to stay in hotel
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Spouse wants in-laws to stay in hotel

December 24, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My spouse and I (both women) have been together for 25 years. For half of them, we lived in the Middle East. We met while working as health…