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Relationship grows amid loss
Dear Abby

Relationship grows amid loss

October 12, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My husband died a year ago, after a nine-year battle with dementia. I recently met a man, “Richard,” whose wife is in the end stages of dementia, which…

Revelations prompt thoughts of divorce
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Revelations prompt thoughts of divorce

October 10, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have been married 27 years with two kids. My wife recently revealed to me that she was raped when she was 14 but said it wasn’t violent.…

Door stays shut when girlfriend visits
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Door stays shut when girlfriend visits

October 8, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My 18-year-old stepdaughter has decided to date another female. She has dated boys in the past, but that’s not the issue. We have nothing against the LGBTQ community.…

Misplaced ring leads to misplaced blame
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Misplaced ring leads to misplaced blame

October 5, 2024

DEAR ABBY: A longtime neighbor and friend has accused me of stealing a ring. I had been providing her with transportation to visit her husband while he was in rehab…

Relatives like to drop in unannounced
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Relatives like to drop in unannounced

October 4, 2024

DEAR ABBY: Some relatives come once or twice a year from out of state to stay at my in-laws’ house. For the past 20-plus years, it has been the same…

Ex-wife likes to stir the pot
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Ex-wife likes to stir the pot

October 1, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I am dating an older man with two ex-wives. I have met both of them. I don’t mind them. The last ex-wife and I get along. She usually…

Couple stunned by friends’ beliefs
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Couple stunned by friends’ beliefs

October 1, 2024

DEAR ABBY: We are a male couple celebrating 34 years of partnership. We recently took a cruise, during which we met four straight couples traveling together who welcomed us into…

Generous gift comes with conditions
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Generous gift comes with conditions

September 28, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My fiance and I have been together for 14 years. A few months ago, his mother told us she had inherited a home that had belonged to her…

Dad’s suicide affects daughter’s choices
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Dad’s suicide affects daughter’s choices

September 27, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My husband’s uncle died by suicide in his home six months ago. It was a shock to the entire family. Since the funeral, we have helped to settle…

Man feels threatened by friend’s girlfriend
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Man feels threatened by friend’s girlfriend

September 24, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I’m a gay man who is best friends with “Carl,” a man who is straight. We are everything you’d expect of a normal friendship. On a surface level,…

Life terrifying for apartment tenant
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Life terrifying for apartment tenant

September 24, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I live in an apartment building. I am quiet and keep to myself. There’s a concierge here who is incredibly nosy. When I pick up my package, she…

“Romance has unintended consequence
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“Romance has unintended consequence

September 24, 2024

DEAR ABBY: A close male friend, “Will,” ended our friendship without warning. I didn’t know he had such strong feelings about my current arrangement. I have been dating a married…

Helping people has become full-time job
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Helping people has become full-time job

September 20, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I enjoy helping my friends, my partner and family members. I feel doing good deeds is important in my retirement. My hands are pretty full with getting my…

Some conversations can look like interrogations
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Some conversations can look like interrogations

September 17, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I appreciate you offering your booklet “How to Be Popular” to people who are uncomfortable or uncertain in social situations. I don’t know if these tips are included,…

Husbands feel out of place dancing at clubs
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Husbands feel out of place dancing at clubs

September 7, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I’m married, and in my mid-40s. My wife and I have a robust social life, for which we both feel very lucky and blessed. We have amazing friends…

Man prefers to rely on his ex-wife
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Man prefers to rely on his ex-wife

September 7, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been seeing “Pete” for eight months. He has been divorced for the last 15 years. He has two grown children and five grandchildren with his ex-wife, “Linda,”…

Man suddenly smitten with woman
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Man suddenly smitten with woman

September 3, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have been around “Kendra” since she was 4. I am 59 and not married to her mother, although we are good friends. Kendra is 36 now and…

Man makes plans with widow while wife works
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Man makes plans with widow while wife works

August 31, 2024

DEAR ABBY: A married couple we met six years ago had a vacation house near ours. We became friendly and would have dinners and drinks and hang out together doing…

Couple have divergent views about punctuality
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Couple have divergent views about punctuality

August 31, 2024

DEAR ABBY: A friend retired, moved and gave me her well-paying, once-a-week job doing industrial cleaning. It pays a sizable chunk of our bills. My husband, who agreed to work…

Neighbor draws line at socializing
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Neighbor draws line at socializing

August 24, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I retired a few years ago to a neighborhood where most of the residents are our age, and we have become friendly with the widow…

Bird gets the royal treatment
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Bird gets the royal treatment

August 24, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My sister has a squawky bird she insists on keeping alongside the dinner table when she invites guests for dinner. Its ear-piercing screeching inhibits guests’ ability to carry…

Snooping boyfriend unhappy about discovery
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Snooping boyfriend unhappy about discovery

August 20, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I’m a single man, and have been for 15 years. A year ago, I met a guy, “Josh,” and we fell in love. He lived 240 miles away.…

Aunt learns reason behind silence
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Aunt learns reason behind silence

August 20, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I am very close to my oldest sister’s three sons, especially “Lucas,” who is 38. He and I have communicated often and have seen each other (we live…

Church leader lies about infidelity
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Church leader lies about infidelity

August 14, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My husband, “Silas,” and I have been married for 30 years. He is the deacon and Sunday school teacher at our church. (His brother is the pastor.) Silas…

Young dog has become a nuisance and a danger
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Young dog has become a nuisance and a danger

August 10, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I am a retiree with diabetes and heart trouble. My husband is disabled. I’m his sole caregiver when I have the energy to do it. Our adult daughter…

Boyfriend’s addiction a deal-breaker
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Boyfriend’s addiction a deal-breaker

August 6, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have been with my live-in boyfriend, “Kyle,” for four years. He has many great qualities, the most important of them being he fully accepts my daughter as…

Parents angered when neighbor calls 911
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Parents angered when neighbor calls 911

August 3, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My next-door neighbors, whom I have become close with, have three adult children. My friends admit it’s always been important for them to be their children’s friends and…