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Boyfriend ignores partner’s wishes
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Boyfriend ignores partner’s wishes

December 24, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend and I recently bought our first house together. It has an outdoor kitchen and other features he really likes. I like it too, but there have…

Son’s wife prefers company of phone
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Son’s wife prefers company of phone

December 24, 2024

DEAR ABBY: When my son got married in 2003, we had many good times with him and his wife. Things have changed now that we have cellphones. It’s nearly impossible…

Exes check in to new phase of uncertainty
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Exes check in to new phase of uncertainty

December 17, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I was with my ex-fiance for 13 years. Not long after he broke up with me, I found myself going to meet him at a hotel. We have…

Husband concerns expectant mom
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Husband concerns expectant mom

December 14, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married less than a year, and I’m pregnant with my first child. Our baby was planned, and we were thrilled. Something changed…

Defeated husbands falls into downward spiral
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Defeated husbands falls into downward spiral

December 12, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My husband is miserable. Five years ago, he was fired from his job of more than 25 years, and the small issues he had with depression, alcohol and…

Partner waiting for a proposal
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Partner waiting for a proposal

December 10, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I just turned 29. My partner, “Jeremy,” and I have been together for six years and have talked about getting engaged. He set the timeline for an expectation…

Truth of early days comes out
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Truth of early days comes out

December 10, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have been with my partner for three years. We met on a dating site but were not able to get together often because of previous plans and…

Ex-wife inserts herself into romance
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Ex-wife inserts herself into romance

December 6, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I need advice about a new relationship. I am a 60-year-old man. I divorced last year and met a nice woman named “Eileen” shortly afterward, and things seemed…

Woman uncovers fiance’s secret life
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Woman uncovers fiance’s secret life

December 3, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have been with the same man for three years, and we have been engaged for a year. I love him with all my heart, but I just…

Sibling seeks to rejoin family
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Sibling seeks to rejoin family

November 30, 2024

DEAR ABBY: Six years ago, my family lost my mother, who was the rock of our family. Two weeks after that, my family started falling apart. My older brother, younger…

Visit comes with irritating catch
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Visit comes with irritating catch

November 28, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I was recently invited for a long weekend at my friend’s new home in South Carolina. She has wanted me to come there to visit ever since she…

Aunt’s addiction puts relationship at risk
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Aunt’s addiction puts relationship at risk

November 26, 2024

DEAR ABBY: How do I handle an elderly aunt who has a gambling problem? I live in a town with casinos. She lives in another state four hours away. She…

Man wants to bury ‘treasures’
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Man wants to bury ‘treasures’

November 26, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My wife and I are in our 80s, married for 61 years. We are financially well-off and have few medical issues. As we approach our departure from this…

Mom unsure how to handle accident aftermath
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Mom unsure how to handle accident aftermath

November 21, 2024

DEAR ABBY: A month ago, my 7-year-old son was struck by a vehicle while riding his bike in a crosswalk. He’s fine now. His injuries were minor, although it was…

Partner enables grown son’s bad behavior
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Partner enables grown son’s bad behavior

November 19, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been living with someone for four years. When we started living together, his son “Byron” was incarcerated. Byron is 33 and has been in trouble since he…

Offer to repay favor has many strings
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Offer to repay favor has many strings

November 16, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I helped a friend by giving her rides to and from work for two weeks while her car was being repaired. When she got her car back, she…

Daughter refuses to see the truth
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Daughter refuses to see the truth

November 16, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My daughter, “Virginia,” age 27, lives with her boyfriend, “Ray,” on the East Coast and teaches kindergarten. Last month, she confided that she had caught him cheating. She…

Thank-you note has big impact
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Thank-you note has big impact

November 13, 2024

DEAR ABBY: Some time ago, you printed a letter from a grandmother who said she was changing her will because neither her adult children nor her grandchildren ever wrote her…

Stepdaughter’s behavior has worn thin
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Stepdaughter’s behavior has worn thin

November 13, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I’m in my early 30s; my husband is 46. We have been married three years. He has a 24-year-old daughter, “Kiki.” Kiki has always been spoiled and catered…

Bitter feelings for mean teacher persist
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Bitter feelings for mean teacher persist

November 8, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My elementary school teacher passed away recently. I hadn’t seen her in more than 20 years because of how she made me feel. I remember her as manipulative…

Jilted ex eager to resurrect relationship
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Jilted ex eager to resurrect relationship

November 2, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I had a five-year relationship with a man. We broke up because he was unfaithful. Even though I’m willing to forgive and still have feelings for him, my…

Unfaithful spouse ponders pass
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Unfaithful spouse ponders pass

November 2, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have been divorced from my ex-husband, “Paul,” for 20 years. I never remarried. The divorce was mostly my fault because I was unfaithful. We never tried to…

Sibling doesn’t want to be therapist
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Sibling doesn’t want to be therapist

October 30, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My sister, whom I dearly love, is going through some difficult times. She confides in me about her troubles, and I gladly listen and give advice. Although I…

Woman keeps mom at arm’s length on social media
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Woman keeps mom at arm’s length on social media

October 30, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I’m the mom of an 18-year-old daughter, “Leia.” We have always tried to keep the lines of communication open with our children, and we have what I think…

Relative’s spouse unwelcome at gatherings
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Relative’s spouse unwelcome at gatherings

October 22, 2024

DEAR ABBY: Many months ago, a family member’s husband was charged with possession of and distributing more than 10,000 items of child pornography. The police and Department of Homeland Security…

Spouse eager to put foot down about shoes
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Spouse eager to put foot down about shoes

October 19, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My wife continually dirties the floors in our home because she refuses to stop wearing shoes in the house. She’ll be out all day – at work, running…

Husband makes music with another woman
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Husband makes music with another woman

October 17, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I used to play in a band together. He played guitar, and I sang. He now has another female singer in his band, and I…

Wife’s ‘adjustment’ irks husband
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Wife’s ‘adjustment’ irks husband

October 17, 2024

DEAR ABBY: Recently, my wife and I and several other couples were houseguests in a large home. Among them was a couple who, when introduced, mentioned that the husband was…