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Disagreement progresses to estrangement
Dear Abby

Disagreement progresses to estrangement

August 1, 2024

DEAR ABBY: After several years of worsening arguments, I told my father I was tired of fighting with him, and we needed family counseling. He was deeply, explosively offended and…

Secrets still held as union ends
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Secrets still held as union ends

July 30, 2024

DEAR ABBY: After many years of trying to keep our family together, divorce is our final option. My husband has had two affairs that I know of during our 30-year…

Man has long endured insults from wife
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Man has long endured insults from wife

July 27, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I’m a 50-year-old man, married for 17 years with two kids. I have a mostly good marriage, but I have been noticing things that bother me. Almost daily,…

Mom uses social media to disparage kids
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Mom uses social media to disparage kids

July 25, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My mother is toxic. She had a terrible childhood, and she takes it out on me and my younger siblings. I live far away; they live in the…

Room assignments unclear for ‘throuple’
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Room assignments unclear for ‘throuple’

July 23, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My 25-year-old son lives with his two girlfriends, who are also romantically involved with each other. They share a single bedroom. One of them has a baby due…

Dad’s new wife offers sketchy advice
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Dad’s new wife offers sketchy advice

July 20, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I had a baby right around the time my father remarried. I didn’t know my new stepmother very well when she started giving me parenting…

Troubling memories about dad haunt daughter
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Troubling memories about dad haunt daughter

July 19, 2024

DEAR ABBY: When I was young and even as I grew older, my father touched me inappropriately. It made me uncomfortable even as an adult. I feel like when I…

Son feels like the only adult
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Son feels like the only adult

July 16, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been having an issue lately involving my mother. It feels like she isn’t really my “mother” but someone who thinks we’re best friends. It’s like she never…

Overeaters Anonymous still doing hard work
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Overeaters Anonymous still doing hard work

July 12, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I recently watched a video of the founder of Overeaters Anonymous, Rozanne S., telling the story of founding the program and her own struggles with food. In it,…

Handsy male friends thumb noses at fiance
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Handsy male friends thumb noses at fiance

July 9, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My fiancee has a number of male friends she has known for years. One of them stops off at her work, brings food and gifts, and may go…

Aging father has made plans for assets
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Aging father has made plans for assets

July 6, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I’m a single retired grandfather in the South. My daughter, 50, has hitched her wagon to an alcoholic. She’s circling the drain and going down with him. My…

Grandma feels slighted by stolen nickname
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Grandma feels slighted by stolen nickname

July 6, 2024

DEAR ABBY: We have five grandchildren. All but one call me MeeMaw. I’ve been MeeMaw since my first grandchild was born 15 years ago. Four years ago, our third grandchild…

Online acquaintance wants to get closer
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Online acquaintance wants to get closer

July 6, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I’m a 70-year-old Black woman who looks about 45 or 50. I recently met a man online while playing dominoes. We have been chatting back and forth for…

Woman targets man with disabilities
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Woman targets man with disabilities

July 2, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My son “Ethan” is a visually impaired adult with disabilities. He’s articulate, down to earth and joyful to be around. He’s a homeowner in a nice area of…

Daughter cuts off contact with family
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Daughter cuts off contact with family

June 27, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My older daughter, “Brianna,” age 42, does not want anything to do with me or her brother and sister-in-law. She keeps me from my granddaughter, who is 17.…

Wife refuses to repeat tall tales
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Wife refuses to repeat tall tales

June 25, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My husband of almost 40 years is not well. He has been a good provider, but his life stories are heavily laced with lies. That has been very…

Girlfriend finally calls it quits
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Girlfriend finally calls it quits

June 25, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My girlfriend and I broke up after six years. Both of us have children from marriages that ended seven years ago. We reached a point a year and…

Granddaughters’ bikinis make waves at gathering
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Granddaughters’ bikinis make waves at gathering

June 22, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have two granddaughters and four grandsons. My granddaughters, ages 19 and 20, wear thong bikinis at family swim events in front of their dad, grandpa, uncles and…

Young relative always on hunt for cash, gifts
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Young relative always on hunt for cash, gifts

June 18, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My stepdaughter has an 11-year-old daughter I’ll call “Kristina.” Kristina is very well-behaved, but she’s being taught at home that love is measured in dollars. She is constantly…

Friendship is still appreciated
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Friendship is still appreciated

June 18, 2024

DEAR ABBY: As a lonely, mixed-up teenager in the 1980s, I developed a huge crush on a disc jockey at a local radio station. I would call him at least…

Aging couple considers move
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Aging couple considers move

June 14, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are contemplating moving across the country to be near our daughters. We have lived in our home for 45 years. We are both active…

Wife prepares to run off with best man
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Wife prepares to run off with best man

June 12, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have been married to “George” for 35 years. I was pregnant when I married. We had dated only five months. We came from families that believed you…

Mother-in-law shows signs of problems
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Mother-in-law shows signs of problems

June 8, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I am fortunate to have a great relationship with my in-laws. We live half a continent apart, so although we video chat often, we get to see them…

Flirtation with past endangers present
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Flirtation with past endangers present

June 7, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have been married to a wonderful man for 17 years. Recently, I reconnected online with an old high school flame. We have been talking about my hometown,…

Despite girlfriend, man remains married
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Despite girlfriend, man remains married

June 4, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have been with my partner, “Hank,” for 25 years, but although he is legally separated, he is still married. We have lived together for 24 of these…

Ex still devastated by betrayal
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Ex still devastated by betrayal

June 4, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I still obsess over my first love, even though we broke up 21 years ago. We grew up in a poor mill town, where I was a frustrated,…

Boyfriend kept kids’ ages secret
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Boyfriend kept kids’ ages secret

May 31, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have been dating my man for seven years. When we got serious, he told me he had kids. Because we are seniors, I assumed his kids were…

In-law ‘forgets’ promise made to widow
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In-law ‘forgets’ promise made to widow

May 28, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I am a widow. I supported my husband during our entire marriage with no help from his wealthy parents. My husband died before his father did. After my…