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Friendship’s decline doesn’t stop cash ask
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Friendship’s decline doesn’t stop cash ask

May 24, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My friend “Gene” and I have been friends since elementary school. We’re now in our 50s. We were inseparable best friends all those years. When we were about…

Wife worries about grieving man
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Wife worries about grieving man

May 21, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for 42 years. Three months ago, I started seeing changes in my husband’s behavior. He had lost two good friends within two months, so…

Widowed spouse makes special plea
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Widowed spouse makes special plea

May 16, 2024

DEAR ABBY: Today I ironed and folded my late husband’s lucky fishing shirt and placed it into a box going to Goodwill. Continuing with the task, I matched up 14…

Husband’s temper worsens after layoff
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Husband’s temper worsens after layoff

May 16, 2024

DEAR ABBY: When my husband, “Wayne,” and I were dating 15 years ago, he would occasionally get angry and stalk off or bust a bag of chips, but after I…

Partner choice about to end inheritance
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Partner choice about to end inheritance

May 14, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I’m a 67-year-old father to a wonderful daughter. She has decided to stay with her boyfriend, who recently got out of jail for stealing $200,000 from his grandparents.…

Famous brownie recipe comes with warning
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Famous brownie recipe comes with warning

May 14, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have read that you have a sweet tooth. I do, too. That’s why I’m interested in your recipe booklets, particularly if you have included dessert recipes. Which…

Daughter told she shares blame for divorce
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Daughter told she shares blame for divorce

May 9, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I am the 18-year-old daughter (and third child) of parents who are going through a divorce after being together for 36 years. I need your insight on this…

Man tells wife to find side piece
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Man tells wife to find side piece

May 7, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for the last 25 years to a wonderful man, “Frank.” We are very happy in all areas except for intimacy. Frank has lost all…

Son won’t allow mom to find happiness
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Son won’t allow mom to find happiness

May 2, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My sister “Sandy” divorced her husband 15 years ago. Her oldest son, “Nick,” has never gotten over it. He’s 30 now and has treated her badly over the…

Crush leaves woman struggling to move on
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Crush leaves woman struggling to move on

April 30, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I am a lesbian who recently experienced heartbreak by falling in love with my mentor and boss. I didn’t want it to happen, but it did. The time…

Frightened wife tired of living a lie
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Frightened wife tired of living a lie

April 30, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have been deceiving my husband for a couple of months and can’t figure out how to come clean. I feel like a terrible person. We have been…

Three’s more than a crowd
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Three’s more than a crowd

April 25, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend is 18 years younger than I am. Our relationship hasn’t been perfect, but I love him to death. Unfortunately, I’m going through menopause and have all…

New sounds drift through neighborhood
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New sounds drift through neighborhood

April 23, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I live in a lovely older neighborhood and have enjoyed wonderful neighbors over many years. The homes are close together with windows often left open…

Wedding planning shifts to appearance
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Wedding planning shifts to appearance

April 20, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have a 25-year-old niece, “Meadow,” who embraces the hippie lifestyle. She’s kind and sweet and loves everyone. She has also opposed “the Establishment.” She’s heavily tattooed and…

Romance between relatives upsets friends
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Romance between relatives upsets friends

April 17, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My husband’s best friend, “Kevin,” lost his wife three years ago. He’s currently in a relationship with his niece (his deceased brother’s daughter). Kevin is in his 60s;…

Relationship hits two years without meetup
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Relationship hits two years without meetup

April 13, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I am a gay man who matched with another guy on a dating site two years ago this month. At first, we texted constantly. No one has ever…

25-year marriage in intimacy-free zone
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25-year marriage in intimacy-free zone

April 11, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I’m in a sexless 25-year marriage. It was not always this way, but any intimacy has been over for more than a decade. My wife’s libido has waned,…

Grandma not allowed to hold baby
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Grandma not allowed to hold baby

April 11, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My oldest daughter, “Kate,” is 22. Her baby is now 6 months old. She is the first grandchild and great-grandchild. Kate refuses to allow my mom to hold…

Revelation of affair clouds present, future
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Revelation of affair clouds present, future

April 6, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have known each other for 25 years. We married five years ago. At that time, I was making 500-mile round trips twice a month…

Man can longer support brother
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Man can longer support brother

April 5, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My brother (eight years younger) has been hooked on drugs and in and out of jail for decades. Our father died five years ago. My brother lived with…

Farmstead reveals disturbing secret
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Farmstead reveals disturbing secret

April 2, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I need a second opinion. My grandfather sold me an old farmstead that has been in the family for 200 years. Last week, he showed me a wooded…

Daughter feels abandoned by father
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Daughter feels abandoned by father

March 30, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I’m a millennial. I am successful in my career and lucky to have a loving husband and two amazing children. I am, however, trying to remind myself to…

Relationship with friend a one-way street
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Relationship with friend a one-way street

March 30, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I have a friend who talks nonstop. Honestly, I can put the phone down and go make a cup of tea, and she’ll still be talking when I…

Veganism has become a third party in marriage
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Veganism has become a third party in marriage

March 28, 2024

DEAR ABBY: My wife and I have been teachers since 1999. We married in 2011. She became vegan in 2017. It helped her beat diabetes, which I love. However, she’s…

Son’s friend lives in home with sex offender
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Son’s friend lives in home with sex offender

March 26, 2024

DEAR ABBY: We recently moved to a new neighborhood. My 8-year-old son, “Joey,” has become best friends with a classmate, “Paul,” who lives on our street. We know from research…

Relative offended by change of wedding plans
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Relative offended by change of wedding plans

March 15, 2024

DEAR ABBY: A relative is getting married, and the RSVP date has passed. It was announced many months ago and was to be a big, formal church wedding, with eight…

Estranged daughter out of the loop
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Estranged daughter out of the loop

March 15, 2024

DEAR ABBY: Three years ago, our 40-year-old daughter, “Tanya,” suddenly accused me of abusing her during her childhood. She also accused my husband, her dad, of enabling this abuse. Abby,…

Abusive mom continues to manipulate
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Abusive mom continues to manipulate

March 13, 2024

DEAR ABBY: I’m an only child (in my 30s now) who was raised by an emotionally and verbally abusive mother. When I wasn’t her whipping post, I was an emotional…