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Husband’s change of heart not so sudden
Dear Abby

Husband’s change of heart not so sudden

January 3, 2024

DEAR ABBY: Three months ago, my husband of 30 years came home from work, told me he wasn’t happy anymore and said he wanted a divorce. He announced he was…

Newlywed discovers man’s possessiveness
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Newlywed discovers man’s possessiveness

December 30, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have been married three years. The man I married is not the person I fell in love with. After our wedding, he demanded that I take his…

Unhappy wife ponders new life
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Unhappy wife ponders new life

December 30, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have been married to my husband for 12 years. We have had our ups and downs. I was unfaithful at one point, and he left for eight…

Man’s absences now have reason
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Man’s absences now have reason

December 26, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend of three years works six days a week with Sundays off. For the last six weeks, my calls have gone unanswered from Saturday evening through Monday…

Wife’s texts to co-worker viewed as threat
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Wife’s texts to co-worker viewed as threat

December 23, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I am a 42-year-old male, married for 19 years with three teenage children. My wife recently decided to return to work after staying home with the kids as…

School fails to protect student
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School fails to protect student

December 23, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My daughter, who is in eighth grade, has slowly come out as lesbian. She enjoys makeup and fashion, but isn’t absolute in presenting in a feminine way. She…

Woman doesn’t like vibe husband giving off
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Woman doesn’t like vibe husband giving off

December 20, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My husband is desperate for women’s attention, and I’m sure he’d cheat on me the instant he had the chance. We have been together for 12 years. When…

Man proves to be more crybaby than caregiver
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Man proves to be more crybaby than caregiver

December 16, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I was just released from the hospital, and I suspect my husband is tapping his foot waiting for me to fix him lunch. He isn’t doing or saying…

Fishing pal is bigger catch
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Fishing pal is bigger catch

December 16, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have been involved with a man I met online. We texted and talked for months before we met. He told me he had a lady friend he…

Politics makes office-seeker uneasy
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Politics makes office-seeker uneasy

December 16, 2023

DEAR ABBY: There’s a social club within our retirement community that meets once a month, and I have attended since moving here. During this time, I have brought new ideas…

Romance grows in blended family
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Romance grows in blended family

December 12, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have been dating my boyfriend, “George,” for 17 years after our divorces. I have three grown children. He has four – two of whom are still at…

Childhood friend knows whole truth
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Childhood friend knows whole truth

December 12, 2023

DEAR ABBY: Forty years ago, a neighborhood boy fathered a child with a neighborhood girl. “Billy” was 17 at the time, and “Becky” was 14 or 15. Both were friends…

Parents upset by daughter’s love life
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Parents upset by daughter’s love life

December 5, 2023

DEAR ABBY: Three days before my daughter “Ginger’s” wedding, her fiance called to announce that he could not marry her because she’s bisexual. It’s something he knew about for a…

Friend concerned about homeless woman
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Friend concerned about homeless woman

December 2, 2023

DEAR ABBY: A good friend of 20 years has been homeless for several months. After a short stint of staying in various Airbnbs, she is now mostly living in her…

Man lets others do heavy lifting
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Man lets others do heavy lifting

November 30, 2023

DEAR ABBY: Our son plays a college sport for which he receives four complimentary tickets for each game. It works out well because there are four of us in his…

Wife has new kind of workout in mind
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Wife has new kind of workout in mind

November 28, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been married to the most amazing woman for 30 years. She became a personal trainer and is in incredible shape. I’m not in her kind of shape,…

Widow navigates change in relations
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Widow navigates change in relations

November 25, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My husband died four years ago. I started dating my current beau two years ago. We are great friends. We are supportive of each other and enjoy our…

Wife’s admissions damage trust
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Wife’s admissions damage trust

November 25, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have been married to my high school sweetheart for 30 years. Recently, she shared details of two infidelities that she had with other men. The first was…

Teen’s wardrobe choices too much for one mom
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Teen’s wardrobe choices too much for one mom

November 21, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I am a fairly laid-back mom of a wonderful 13-year-old daughter. Her friends are nice kids, but some of them dress pretty provocatively. I have seen them wear…

Ex’s threats may warrant legal action
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Ex’s threats may warrant legal action

November 18, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My son, age 31, dated a woman for a month. On a couple of occasions, she got drunk and became very nasty. He decided to end the relationship…

Emotionally abused friend has support network
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Emotionally abused friend has support network

November 16, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My best friend “Owen’s” wife, “Shirley,” is a narcissist, and she’s driving everyone away from him. They have been married for 10 years. I’ve known Owen since high…

Suitor’s behavior pushes boundaries
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Suitor’s behavior pushes boundaries

November 16, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have been with my live-in boyfriend for eight years. During the last five months, he has started staying out until daylight, choosing his friends over me, snapping…

Sales pitch comes soon after brother’s death
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Sales pitch comes soon after brother’s death

November 11, 2023

DEAR ABBY: After my husband’s younger brother recently passed away, the family gathered. When one group of nephews arrived in a city an hour away from us, we were invited…

War letters project marks anniversary
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War letters project marks anniversary

November 9, 2023

DEAR READERS: Twenty-five years ago Saturday, I told you about a new, nationwide effort to honor and remember our nation’s troops, veterans and families by seeking out and preserving their…

Marriage to abuser has become prison
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Marriage to abuser has become prison

November 9, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been married to my husband for almost 43 years. We haven’t had sex in more than 10 years. He is a nasty drunk, which has grown worse.…

Grandparents prepare gift for thankless grandkids
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Grandparents prepare gift for thankless grandkids

November 7, 2023

DEAR ABBY: For years, we have given generous gifts to our six out-of-town grandchildren and received almost no thanks or acknowledgment. It hurts my feelings because I devote a lot…

Young adult weighs tough decision
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Young adult weighs tough decision

November 2, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I’m 24 and not where I want to be in life. I have goals and dreams I would like to accomplish. However, my family is super family-oriented. I…

Family wants relationship to end
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Family wants relationship to end

November 2, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I live in a rural community in southern Indiana. It’s an “everyone goes to church on Sunday, and everyone knows everyone” kind of place. I was employed at…

Relationship crumbles after weekend apart
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Relationship crumbles after weekend apart

October 28, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I met a great woman, and we have been dating for a year and a half. We talk and message every day, we have our inside jokes, and…

Family sticks together despite differences
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Family sticks together despite differences

October 28, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I am one of nine children who all still get along. One sibling belongs to a religious order. At least one (for sure) is not a Christian. One…