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Holiday venue change leads to bickering
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Holiday venue change leads to bickering

October 24, 2023

DEAR ABBY: For the last six years, my partner and I have hosted family Thanksgiving dinners. I always spend more time and energy than I have to make it beautiful…

Doctor’s visit ends in confusion
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Doctor’s visit ends in confusion

October 24, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I am a man in my 50s. A few months ago, I had a routine doctor’s appointment, with a new primary care physician. I intended the appointment to…

Family walks on eggshells amid struggles
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Family walks on eggshells amid struggles

October 19, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My son married a wonderful woman. Sadly, they are having great difficulty conceiving a baby. They have opted out of many conventional medical procedures because of their religious…

Wife’s puzzling behavior an obstacle
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Wife’s puzzling behavior an obstacle

October 17, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I’m a lesbian. My wife and I have been married for nine years, but since COVID-19 and my mother’s death, we have had problems. I met a man…

Sibling hopes holiday tradition ends
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Sibling hopes holiday tradition ends

October 13, 2023

DEAR ABBY: Is there any way to end the “holiday newsletter”? Every Christmas, I get one from a particular family member, which invariably includes a list of their glowing accomplishments,…

Relative’s cat has worn out welcome
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Relative’s cat has worn out welcome

October 12, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My mother-in-law, “Irma,” is a peach – she’s the sweetest person in the world. She will do anything for anyone to lend a helping hand. Two weeks ago,…

Young adult won’t pay for health care
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Young adult won’t pay for health care

October 7, 2023

DEAR ABBY: When my husband and I married a year ago, I dropped my health insurance plan and joined his family plan, because he also provides coverage for his children,…

Family member’s insects bug relative
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Family member’s insects bug relative

October 5, 2023

DEAR ABBY: One of my family members is a loner. I’m the closest relative to them. They invite my children and me over for holiday dinners, but the house is…

Long-distance couple craves spark
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Long-distance couple craves spark

October 3, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My fiance and I are engaged to be married soon, but we live (and will continue to live) in separate cities. We are in our mid-50s with children,…

Family left reeling when dad fired
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Family left reeling when dad fired

October 3, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My dad is the breadwinner in our family. A few years ago, he got fired for looking at “inappropriate” material at work. When he told us what happened,…

Daughter refuses to contact grandmother
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Daughter refuses to contact grandmother

September 28, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My 23-year-old daughter, “Chloe,” lives with me and refuses to acknowledge her grandmother’s emails and letters, which are delivered to our home. It has been four years since…

Couple’s marriage lost spark years ago
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Couple’s marriage lost spark years ago

September 26, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have been married to a man I’ll call “Ed” for 15 years. We are seniors, but he is 17 years older than I am. I have three…

Decision to divorce complicated
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Decision to divorce complicated

September 23, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have seriously thought about giving my husband an ultimatum and moving out for a while. Living with him is no longer tolerable. His children support me 100%.…

Expectant mom feels unsupported
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Expectant mom feels unsupported

September 21, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are expecting our first child this year. I moved to the United States a few years ago to be with him. His family is…

Fiance’s co-worker puts on a show
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Fiance’s co-worker puts on a show

September 19, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My fiance and I went to his co-worker “Tina’s” house on a Friday night to socialize and play trivia games. We had been at her place before, for…

Sister dreads family vacation
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Sister dreads family vacation

September 19, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I’m scheduled to go on a vacation with my mother and sister. It seemed like a fun idea during the planning, but as the date approaches, I realize…

Wife returns to marriage
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Wife returns to marriage

September 14, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been married for 34 years. During most of them, I was unfaithful. I never felt like I was truly married because my husband never gave me the…

Young adult has trouble building relationships
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Young adult has trouble building relationships

September 12, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I’m 26 and not currently in a relationship. I don’t have many friends. I’d like to have more, and I try. I wasn’t popular in middle and high…

Single woman unimpressed by today’s men
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Single woman unimpressed by today’s men

September 9, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I’m a 57-year-old, attractive, single, childless woman. Why is it that the men I meet are just plain dumb? They have the conversational skills of 5-year-olds and the…

Introvert wants to avoid planned outing
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Introvert wants to avoid planned outing

September 9, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I am in a group of friends who are mainly from the same country. We bond pretty well and occasionally spend time together. We mostly communicate by text…

Man’s past troubles wife
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Man’s past troubles wife

September 6, 2023

DEAR ABBY: Two years before he met me, my husband of four years did something I feel was morally repugnant: He solicited a prostitute. When he committed this act, he…

Comments push mom to plastic surgery
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Comments push mom to plastic surgery

September 2, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I had my daughter later in life. I was almost 41. I am no beauty queen, but now, 12 years later, I have been asked by two different…

Husband’s wandering eye no secret
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Husband’s wandering eye no secret

August 29, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married for 18 years. It’s a second marriage for both of us. He cheated on his ex with me. Soon after we…

Mother-in-law makes herself at home
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Mother-in-law makes herself at home

August 26, 2023

DEAR ABBY: How do I get my mother-in-law to stop dropping by without calling first? My husband and I have been married for 26 years. Both of us have asked…

Man’s lack of concern worries spouse
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Man’s lack of concern worries spouse

August 24, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are in our 30s. I love him, and I’m worried because he has a “laissez-faire” attitude about everything – especially his health. He has…

Man’s risqué questions irk wife
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Man’s risqué questions irk wife

August 23, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My husband has, for years, felt the need to talk filthy and ask sexual questions of other women. It bothers me something terrible. He’s upset that I ruin…

Couple too busy for time together
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Couple too busy for time together

August 19, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My wife constantly gaslights me. We have four children (ages 1, 3, 4 and 6), and we both work full-time. However, I pull 90% of the weight at…

How to describe troubled daughter?
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How to describe troubled daughter?

August 18, 2023

DEAR ABBY: Our daughter (age 21) has made a series of bad choices and failed relationships since she was 16. She went to college and quit (twice), joined the Air…

Stepdad unnerved by lack of modesty
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Stepdad unnerved by lack of modesty

August 15, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have been married to my second wife for 10 years. Most everything is fine, but we have one area of conflict. It is regarding her daughter, my…