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Boy’s sensitive nature worries grandmother
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Boy’s sensitive nature worries grandmother

June 1, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My grandson is 6 and very sensitive, maybe too sensitive. He’s also lovable, super scientific-minded, good-hearted and generous with his little sister. However, he still uses a diaper…

Colleague notes what’s really going on
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Colleague notes what’s really going on

May 30, 2023

DEAR ABBY: A guy at work, “Leon,” is my age, very friendly and down-to-earth. When we’ve worked together, we have had great conversations, and he has told me a lot…

Friends skeptical about reconciliation
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Friends skeptical about reconciliation

May 27, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I were married nine years. He unexpectedly left me when COVID-19 first hit. We were apart for a year and eight months and ended up…

Woman obsessively monitors rival
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Woman obsessively monitors rival

May 27, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I’m a 45-year-old woman who has been dating “Ben” (53) for two years. We have known each other for more than 20. He treats me like a queen.…

Pool patrons disregard towel protocol
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Pool patrons disregard towel protocol

May 23, 2023

DEAR ABBY: The other day I went to the pool in my neighborhood and found there were four lounge chairs with towels on them indicating they were “reserved.” They are…

Boyfriend steps up to act as caregiver
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Boyfriend steps up to act as caregiver

May 23, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have been with my boyfriend for three months. We’ve had our ups and downs. He’s more into me than I am into him. I was recently diagnosed…

Jilted wife hesitant for 2nd chance
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Jilted wife hesitant for 2nd chance

May 23, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I married a recovering addict, and for years he did great. We made a lovely home and family together. Then one of my husband’s drug buddies (a woman)…

Reader gives recipe a twist
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Reader gives recipe a twist

May 19, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have seen you mention in your column your cookbooklets of favorite recipes. I hope the meatloaf recipe is included. Years ago, I cut out your meatloaf recipe,…

Woman thinks beau has raised freeloaders
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Woman thinks beau has raised freeloaders

May 19, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have been dating a wonderful man for two years. He has two grown children, 27 and 21. Both have good jobs and work full time. I have…

Wife reflects on marriage to alcoholic
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Wife reflects on marriage to alcoholic

May 19, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for 39 years to a kind, supportive and loving man. We are both retired. He stays fit with daily exercise, reads, keeps track of…

Revelations of sex abuse sow shock
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Revelations of sex abuse sow shock

May 9, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I recently was told that my late father-in-law was a serial child abuser who molested his daughter and at least two of his grandchildren. My husband loved and…

Old column helped reader see clearly
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Old column helped reader see clearly

May 6, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I want to thank you for a letter you published in 2007. It came from a woman saying her daughter had “convergence insufficiency disorder,” in which the eye…

Girlfriend ready to commit
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Girlfriend ready to commit

May 4, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I’m in love with a man I met online. We have been together three years, and I want us to start talking about our future. He has never…

Wife incensed when secret revealed
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Wife incensed when secret revealed

May 2, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My son recently confided that his fiancee is pregnant with our first grandchild. He asked me not to share this information with my wife, his mother. He knew…

Shocking revelation puts wedding in doubt
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Shocking revelation puts wedding in doubt

April 29, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My daughter and her fiance are intelligent, successful professionals in their early 30s. Her fiance just informed her he was a sperm donor for a friend and his…

Siblings take different approach to mom
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Siblings take different approach to mom

April 27, 2023

DEAR ABBY: Our mom just turned 100, and she is in good health. I threw a big birthday celebration to honor this amazing woman. My brother and I were adopted…

Ex is still negative influence
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Ex is still negative influence

April 25, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My wife and I were married 21 years ago. Since then, she has admitted to cheating with 10 different men. Each time, I stayed with her, hoping she’d…

Friend frets as woman become wife No. 3
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Friend frets as woman become wife No. 3

April 22, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My best friend, “Laura,” had an affair with a married man for 20 years. He had been married twice before, and both wives died. He’s only 50, so…

Grieving partner wrestles with loss
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Grieving partner wrestles with loss

April 20, 2023

DEAR ABBY: We were a male couple in our 70s, together for 21 years, before my husband, “Charles,” died of COPD three weeks ago. For more than four years, I…

Longtime friendship broken by act
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Longtime friendship broken by act

April 19, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I am heartbroken over the loss of my best friend of more than 30 years. “Barb” and I met in college. We live and are raising our families…

Father cuts all contact with son
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Father cuts all contact with son

April 19, 2023

DEAR ABBY: Our son “Victor” and his wife have informed us that they are “polyamorous.” They have been married for nine years, and were together for five years before they…

Mom’s unwelcome comments need to dry up
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Mom’s unwelcome comments need to dry up

April 13, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I am tattooed. I have 11 spread over my body. I grew up with strict rules. My mom always said no piercings (other than ears) or tattoos while…

Rediscovered love can be complicated
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Rediscovered love can be complicated

April 11, 2023

DEAR ABBY: After being divorced for 18 years, I have reconnected with my high school sweetheart. She got in touch with me, and we started talking and seeing each other.…

Woman eager to neutralize bad behavior
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Woman eager to neutralize bad behavior

April 8, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I’m at a loss about how to deal with my sister, “Julie.” We had an incredibly hard childhood. We lost our mother when she was only 48. My…

Grandmother required to treat child as own
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Grandmother required to treat child as own

April 7, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My son is in a relationship with “Cheryl.” They live together. Cheryl has a daughter and is demanding that I treat the girl as one of my granddaughters.…

Firefighter’s wife alarmed by his behavior
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Firefighter’s wife alarmed by his behavior

April 4, 2023

DEAR ABBY: Last night I went to a party where my husband introduced me to all of his co-workers except for one young female who kept hanging out beside him.…

Creepy questions don’t sit right with couple
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Creepy questions don’t sit right with couple

April 1, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I met our neighbor “Maggie” one day while she was walking her dog. She has since befriended me via additional meetings on the street and…

Daughter refuses to live in reality
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Daughter refuses to live in reality

March 30, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My 28-year-old daughter moved back home when COVID-19 hit. She works as an influencer and also has a part-time job as a content creator. She doesn’t pay bills.…

Man’s sudden reappearance confusing
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Man’s sudden reappearance confusing

March 30, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I recently got engaged to a man I’ve been seeing long distance for about a year. Then, out of the blue, an old military friend/crush called me and…

Friend with benefit still benefiting
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Friend with benefit still benefiting

March 30, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I lost my husband of 20 years a little over two years ago. Last year, I moved to another state to be close to family. I rented an…