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Abusive mother-in-law needs to be kept away
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Abusive mother-in-law needs to be kept away

January 12, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I used to have a great relationship with my mother-in-law. I considered her one of my best friends, until her severe drug and alcohol abuse began to ruin…

Anger issues become hurdle in romance
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Anger issues become hurdle in romance

January 10, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have a problem I just can’t identify. I suppose it’s a combination of a lot of issues. I live with my boyfriend and work from home. When…

Marriage teeters after only 11 months
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Marriage teeters after only 11 months

January 5, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married 11 months. We’ve been together five years and have lived together for the last three. This is my second marriage and…

Husband’s annual trip unpopular
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Husband’s annual trip unpopular

January 3, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married nine years and have four children, ages 5, 3, 2 and 9 months. For the past three years, he has been…

A happy new year to all
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A happy new year to all

December 31, 2022

DEAR READERS: Welcome to 2023! A new year has arrived, and the last one is behind us. As always, this new year brings with it our hopes for a new…

Secret leads to havoc when family finds out
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Secret leads to havoc when family finds out

December 29, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I was married to a man whose family always seemed to be in each other’s business. His 18-year-old niece already had two children when she became pregnant again.…

Woman prefers thrill of the hunt
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Woman prefers thrill of the hunt

December 27, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I am a woman in my late 30s. I have had a few failed relationships and a marriage that ended in divorce. At one point, I juggled three…

What’s the best way to stay in touch?
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What’s the best way to stay in touch?

December 24, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I have a much younger friend in another state, and we like to keep in touch. I prefer email, as I’m elderly, hard of hearing and look after…

Student plans for future with beau
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Student plans for future with beau

December 22, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I am a senior in high school in a long-distance relationship. My boyfriend, “Grant,” and I live two states apart and have visited each other several times. He’s…

Woman still getting the cold shoulder
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Woman still getting the cold shoulder

December 20, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I’ve been married six years, and ever since we’ve been married, my husband’s daughter has insisted that I can’t come to her house that my husband has a…

Sister’s stuff taking over garage
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Sister’s stuff taking over garage

December 18, 2022

DEAR ABBY: While my sister was incarcerated, she was evicted from her house. She asked me if I would pack her belongings and store them for her in my garage…

Choose right time to share sympathy
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Choose right time to share sympathy

December 15, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My father died a couple of years ago, and my mother died recently. I have noticed something that I would like to share with your readers. When I…

New beau blindsides ex
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New beau blindsides ex

December 13, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My ex-wife, “Jenny,” and I were together seven years, married for almost five of them. We have a young child together. We have been divorced for eight months.…

Change to will may signal serious issue
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Change to will may signal serious issue

December 10, 2022

DEAR ABBY: You printed a letter from a person whose failing, elderly friend made an abrupt change to his will (“Promise Withdrawn in Texas,” Aug. 27). Because of the change,…

Strangers saw chat very differently
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Strangers saw chat very differently

December 8, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend of two years works for a company with 160 employees, 95 miles from our town. He held a party at a restaurant located near the company.…

Man divides time with wife, mistress
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Man divides time with wife, mistress

December 6, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I have been married to my wife for a little over a year. I love her. However, right before our wedding, I met a co-worker I’ll call “Alexis.”…

Friendship with doctor’s wife awkward
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Friendship with doctor’s wife awkward

December 3, 2022

DEAR ABBY: For several years, I have gone to a medical specialist I’ll call “Eric” for certain issues. Eric’s wife, “Nina,” and I were very close friends. Our families celebrated…

Woman accosted for saying things she didn’t
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Woman accosted for saying things she didn’t

December 1, 2022

DEAR ABBY: A friend, “Marie,” approached me in the parking lot after church, raising her voice, flailing her arms and saying three people had told her that I told them…

Abused wife seeks path forward
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Abused wife seeks path forward

November 29, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My husband of 30 years has always made me feel like I wasn’t good enough for him. He would flirt with other women and say things to me…

Mom deals with fallout from past decision
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Mom deals with fallout from past decision

November 26, 2022

DEAR ABBY: Fifteen years ago, I “ran away from home” to get away from my adult children, and I finally made a life for myself. They were able to stay…

Man’s wife going off the rails
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Man’s wife going off the rails

November 24, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for close to a year, and in this short time I’ve seen a side of my wife I’ve never seen before. Although I met…

Second marriage gets cold shoulder
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Second marriage gets cold shoulder

November 22, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I left a manipulative and abusive marriage after 18 years. My parents fully supported my decision. When I became engaged to the wonderful man who is now my…

Middle-aged daughter hasn’t left nest
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Middle-aged daughter hasn’t left nest

November 19, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My husband passed away two years ago. I hope you can give me some advice on how to deal with my 53-year-old daughter who never left home. We…

Beau keeps presence on dating sites
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Beau keeps presence on dating sites

November 17, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I am a widowed woman who met a gentleman online two years ago. We met in person and get along really great. Everything seems perfect, but my girlfriends…

Wife is second-class citizen in own home
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Wife is second-class citizen in own home

November 15, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for five years. My husband and I are both past middle age and have been married before (me twice; three times for him). For…

Reader: Get busy living
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Reader: Get busy living

November 15, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I read the letter from the woman who is feeling alone at 66 and pondering the purpose of life (“Living Life in Texas,” July 25). Assuming she’s in…

Mom fears for daughter entering workforce
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Mom fears for daughter entering workforce

November 10, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My daughter is about to turn 14 and wants to get a job. We just found out that in our state, 14- and 15-year-olds can work if they…

Custom still best way to say ‘thanks’
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Custom still best way to say ‘thanks’

November 8, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I was taught to write handwritten thank-you notes when I received a gift. Over the last few years, my gifts have been acknowledged with a brief text, Facebook…

Marriage raining on music man’s parade
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Marriage raining on music man’s parade

November 5, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I’m a middle-aged married man and the father of two. Although I work as a banker, I’m also an aspiring pianist. I have practiced two to three hours…