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Widow AWOL after new romance
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Widow AWOL after new romance

November 3, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My dear friend “Rose’s” husband died five years ago, and since then she has struggled with grief and loneliness. She immersed herself in her church, friends and family.…

Dating life a roller-coaster ride
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Dating life a roller-coaster ride

November 1, 2022

DEAR ABBY: Since my divorce, I have started dating again. I was seeing a firefighter until I realized he was married with kids. Yes, I was angry with him for…

Ex-wife’s snub saddens father
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Ex-wife’s snub saddens father

October 29, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I just attended my son’s wedding. He married a wonderful woman, and I couldn’t be happier for them. However, I was not acknowledged during their wedding reception, which…

Brother’s anger hits at home, work
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Brother’s anger hits at home, work

October 29, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I have a brother I can’t seem to get along with anymore. Sometimes he’s OK, but most of the time he’s not. I visited him recently for a…

Discomfort with trans coach could derail fun
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Discomfort with trans coach could derail fun

October 25, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My 9-year-old daughter, “Kennedy,” plays volleyball. One of the assistant coaches is a transgender woman. I had known about the coach before Kennedy started playing. Although I’m OK…

Dad takes back gift after disagreement
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Dad takes back gift after disagreement

October 22, 2022

DEAR ABBY: For my 50th birthday 10 years ago, my father, with whom I have had a tumultuous relationship, gave me cherished rings as gifts. One was my grandmother’s and…

Mom worries ex has turned daughter against her
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Mom worries ex has turned daughter against her

October 22, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I was married for more than 40 years. My ex constantly badmouths me to everyone. He got to our grown daughter early during our separation, and it’s clear…

Boyfriend less than thrilled with adviser
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Boyfriend less than thrilled with adviser

October 18, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My longtime girlfriend has male friends who visit her during the day while I am gone for about a week each month. I know them, they are interesting…

Son turns away from family
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Son turns away from family

October 15, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I’m writing because I need some guidance. My 21-year-old son, “Dennis,” is involved with a young woman he met in college. She is physically, verbally and emotionally abusive…

Man refuses to confront friend who assaulted wife
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Man refuses to confront friend who assaulted wife

October 11, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My husband’s best friend groped my privates several years ago at a party. It was traumatizing. I have never forgotten how abused and dirty it made me feel.…

Holidays far from happy for family
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Holidays far from happy for family

October 7, 2022

DEAR ABBY: With the holidays approaching, I am starting to become anxious. I have a family member who ruins every holiday she doesn’t have control over. (She excludes some family…

Miscarriage brings emotional fallout
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Miscarriage brings emotional fallout

October 6, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My partner and I have just suffered a miscarriage. It was our first pregnancy, and even though it wasn’t planned, it was very much wanted. Now that I…

Niece keeps secret life from mom
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Niece keeps secret life from mom

October 5, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My niece, “Amanda,” is 19 and fairly close with my daughter “Hayley,” who is 18. Since graduating from high school and through her first year away at college,…

Living arrangement includes surprise roommate
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Living arrangement includes surprise roommate

September 30, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I was in a relationship that abruptly ended because he cheated. We didn’t have kids, so I moved in with my parents until I was able to get…

Woman hid cheating from jailed beau
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Woman hid cheating from jailed beau

September 30, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My boyfriend and I have been involved for five years. He was sentenced to prison for 3½ years. Before he left, we had a really rocky relationship. He…

Keeping old friendship in new marriage
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Keeping old friendship in new marriage

September 23, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I recently married “Joel,” a man I love very much. While we have our differences, we are solid in the knowledge that we love each other and are…

Husband’s ‘other woman’ is Mary Jane
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Husband’s ‘other woman’ is Mary Jane

September 23, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I have been with my husband for seven years, and I’m tired of having the same fight every day. He smokes marijuana, and I hate it. It has…

Husband discovers women’s clothing
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Husband discovers women’s clothing

September 20, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My wife has been away for a while caring for her ill parents. Because I was alone, I decided to experiment with wearing women’s clothes and found that…

Middle schooler finds it hard to make new friends
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Middle schooler finds it hard to make new friends

September 13, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My daughter is in eighth grade at a small private school. The problem is, she doesn’t have any friends there. Away from school she makes friends easily. But…

Man finds lost family, still feels unwanted
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Man finds lost family, still feels unwanted

September 13, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I was adopted at 6 weeks old. My parents adopted my sister two years later. They weren’t very good parents – not abusive, but with no understanding of…

Wife fighting a losing battle
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Wife fighting a losing battle

September 8, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My husband inherited a nasty habit from his mother. He calls people “crazy” to discredit them so he can win arguments and stifle discussion. I have told him…

Woman concerned about nephew’s care
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Woman concerned about nephew’s care

September 6, 2022

DEAR ABBY: My younger sister, “Fern,” gave birth to a son three months ago. Since she returned to work, it seems like all she does is dump her baby, “Ricky,”…

Husband tired of being ignored at home
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Husband tired of being ignored at home

September 2, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I have been with my wife for 25 years, married for 22 of them. I love her very much, but sometimes I feel it isn’t mutual. We have…

New beau sets conditions for marriage
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New beau sets conditions for marriage

September 1, 2022

DEAR ABBY: About a year ago, I started a long-distance relationship with a widower. His wife died four years ago. He told me he slept on the couch a long…

Three’s a crowd in budding romance
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Three’s a crowd in budding romance

August 31, 2022

DEAR ABBY: I recently met the love of my life, and I’m planning to leave my life and family in Arkansas and move to California to marry him. He’s recently…

Friend confused about inclusion in will
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Friend confused about inclusion in will

August 26, 2022

DEAR ABBY: For 15 years I’ve maintained a close friendship with a wealthy older man who has become a kind of mentor. He’s 90 years old now and in failing…