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Sister-in-law creates hurdle
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Sister-in-law creates hurdle

March 30, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married for six years. The problem is his sister and the emotional hold she seems to have on him. There have been…

Grandma sniffs at nose stud
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Grandma sniffs at nose stud

March 30, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My 20-year-old niece, “Andrea,” came to visit her grandmother wearing a nose stud. Andrea is quiet, is polite to her grandparents and aunt and is in her third…

Woman’s frank talk concerns beau
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Woman’s frank talk concerns beau

March 28, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I’m a 50-year-old man who has been divorced twice. The last one was two years and eight months ago. Last year, I met a wonderful woman, and we…

Silence replaces friendship
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Silence replaces friendship

March 14, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have been friends with a woman I’ll call “Blanche” for 40 years. We used to work together, and we supported each other during our divorces and other…

Parents: Remember that words matter
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Parents: Remember that words matter

March 14, 2023

DEAR ABBY: While shopping at the mall, I have seen too many stressed-out parents ignore or yell at their children. It certainly isn’t helpful. It isn’t how I was raised…

Gym relationship hard to quit
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Gym relationship hard to quit

March 9, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I am a healthy, single, 76-year-old man. I spend lots of time at a local gym. I met a woman there two years ago, and we went out…

Grandmother feels unwelcome during visits
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Grandmother feels unwelcome during visits

March 7, 2023

DEAR ABBY: When I visit my three grandchildren on Fridays, my daughter-in-law never offers me any refreshment – not even a glass of water or a cup of tea. She…

Marriage on brink from lies, sexting
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Marriage on brink from lies, sexting

March 7, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I found out today that my wife was sexting with a man in another state. His girlfriend sent me a message, which included a series of screenshots. I…

Diabetes struggle causes concern
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Diabetes struggle causes concern

March 4, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My best friend, who is 54, has had Type 1 diabetes since she was 9. She takes two insulin shots a day – one in the morning and…

Living arrangement has woman feeling trapped
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Living arrangement has woman feeling trapped

March 3, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I live with my longtime boyfriend, “George,” and his 88-year-old father, “Frank.” Frank is not your average 88-year-old. He does almost everything anyone in their 60s would do.…

No appreciation for man’s preferred dress
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No appreciation for man’s preferred dress

February 28, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I am a man who has been wearing lingerie for the past few decades. I discovered my love of panties when I slipped into my first pair at…

Stepmom feels slighted by birthday
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Stepmom feels slighted by birthday

February 23, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I am a first-generation Mexican American who married into a Caucasian blended family. My husband, my stepdaughter, “Lisa,” and her mother and stepfather make up a beautiful unit.…

Snooping wife not sure where to turn
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Snooping wife not sure where to turn

February 21, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been together for six years, married for four. We have had a lot of marriage issues during the last few years, sexually and…

Husband bitter when wife succeeds
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Husband bitter when wife succeeds

February 18, 2023

DEAR ABBY: A few years ago, my husband, unhappy in his job, decided he wanted to be a real estate agent. He quit his job to do full-time real estate,…

Mothers create unpleasant dynamic
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Mothers create unpleasant dynamic

February 16, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My partner and I recently had a baby, and it has created some major issues with my mom and in-laws. Mom is an unhappy person who blames others…

Friend’s frisky husband makes desires clear
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Friend’s frisky husband makes desires clear

February 15, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My married friend is a swinger. She says her husband’s sex drive has declined lately, but it hasn’t. He keeps trying to get me to talk “naughty” with…

Estrangement causes second rift
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Estrangement causes second rift

February 11, 2023

DEAR ABBY: After my mother died several years ago, my father’s sometimes violent behavior flared up. A few years ago, I decided to stop spending time with him. My sister,…

Abrupt revelation shocks woman
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Abrupt revelation shocks woman

February 9, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I had pretty much an ideal childhood. My parents have never had issues that I ever saw. We went to church every Sunday, gathered with family often, etc.…

Newborn’s name triggers drama
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Newborn’s name triggers drama

February 7, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I recently gave birth to our second child, a girl. Shortly afterward, my husband called his mother. She lives in a different state hours away and visits only…

Sister can’t keep politics out of visits
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Sister can’t keep politics out of visits

February 4, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My older sister visits me every week to play cards and chat. While I love her dearly and enjoy her visits, sometimes I do not appreciate one topic…

Former friend unaware of whole story
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Former friend unaware of whole story

February 2, 2023

DEAR ABBY: About 10 years ago, my longtime best friend, “Byron,” abruptly cut me out of his life. I never clearly understood why. I reached out to him on and…

Teen immodest in front of strangers
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Teen immodest in front of strangers

January 31, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I don’t know what to do about my 18-year-old niece. She walks around the house in her underwear. She’s been doing it for the last two or three…

Aging dad wants bigger role in kids’ lives
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Aging dad wants bigger role in kids’ lives

January 28, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I am an active widower with five grown children. Although three of them live in the same city and two live in a city nearby, I haven’t heard…

Grandma’s posts strike nerve
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Grandma’s posts strike nerve

January 26, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My daughter died away nine years ago. She was almost 13. My mother never bothered to have a relationship with her when she was alive. But now, on…

Woman wants relationship with couple
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Woman wants relationship with couple

January 24, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I’m a woman in my early 50s who has been through two divorces. This may make me sound like a bad person, but I’m really nice and quite…

Boyfriend hopes to escape current situation
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Boyfriend hopes to escape current situation

January 21, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I have no family and few friends – nobody close. My live-in girlfriend of two years and I argue constantly. We no longer share a bedroom, and I…

Man must pick up pieces after relationship
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Man must pick up pieces after relationship

January 19, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I am a 59-year-old man. My 50-year-old fiancee lives in a nice home, but after a 15-year loving relationship, she decided last week to be with someone else.…

Boyfriend turns to booze, drugs
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Boyfriend turns to booze, drugs

January 17, 2023

DEAR ABBY: I’m having a big problem with my boyfriend. We had a baby five months ago, and since then he has changed drastically. He previously had a problem with…

Marriage has settled into lonely routine
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Marriage has settled into lonely routine

January 14, 2023

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I have been married 45 years. We are both retired and have hobbies to keep us busy. My problem is, he has so many friends…