I would not be who I am today without the ruckus I caused over my yearbook photo. Women should wear whatever they want, and not be put down for it. There is nothing wrong with looking sexy. We should wear what makes us feel powerful and strong. I believe this more deeply now than I did when I submitted the photo. Men and women who “slut-shame” are the ones who should be silenced. I have no tolerance for closed-minded, ignorant people who want to control women.
Young people, be brave. Do not care about what anyone thinks of you. Never let anything get you down. The only thing that matters is what gets you excited, what’s going on inside of your spirit, how you intend to expand consciousness. Your reality is uniquely yours. The universe never stops expanding. Being different is rewarding. Trying to fit in is a waste of time and an insult to your nature. Don’t be afraid to lose friends. Love yourself so much that you don’t need approval. Follow your intuition above all else. Be selfish, discover what you are passionate about. Don’t hesitate, take steps every day toward your goals. Learn from every experience. Question everything you’ve been taught.
The world desperately needs remarkable people. Our beautiful planet is dying, and most Americans are oblivious. They are consumed with materialism and fitting in. They are busy policing what young girls wear, promoting worthless religions and upholding archaic standards. Things need to change before it’s too late. Wake up! Our oceans are almost empty, and animals are disappearing or caged. Young people are the ones who will change the world. Be a rebel. Find your cause. Wear anything that pleases you. Make people mad. Thank you, Durango. You helped me grow. I’ve always had a rebellious spirit. Now, I embrace it. That’s the importance of being a rebel.
Sydney Elizabeth Spies
Amsterdam, Netherlands
