The start of a new year often comes with resolutions. We make promises to ourselves to do better, be better, or try something new. We resolve to eat healthier, slow down, learn a new skill or finally make time to go to the gym. But one resolution that doesn’t always make the list, and perhaps should, is to be part of a community that lifts us up and gives us a chance to be that same support for others.
Belonging matters more than we sometimes realize. In a world that often feels fast-paced, divided or overwhelming, having a place where you feel seen, valued and accepted can make all the difference. Community gives us connection. It reminds us that we are not alone, that our voices matter and that our presence counts, especially on days when we don’t feel our best.
Being part of a community also teaches us something that I think is incredibly important: grace. Each of us is walking our own path, carrying our own challenges, heartbreak, joys and experiences. Loving and accepting people for who they are and where they are takes intention. It means listening without judgment, offering kindness instead of criticism and remembering that growth looks different for everyone. Giving grace doesn’t mean lowering expectations or giving excuses. It means understanding that progress does not look the same for everyone and that compassion can be a powerful motivator.
This is where 4-H shines. At its heart, 4-H is a community built on belonging. In 4-H, youths are welcomed just as they are. They are encouraged to try new things, to make mistakes and to learn from them in a safe, supportive environment. They find mentors who believe in them, peers who cheer them on, and opportunities to discover their strengths and passions.
4-H teaches young people how to work together, respect differences and care about something bigger than themselves. It helps youths grow in confidence while learning the value of empathy. Youths learn that leadership isn’t about being perfect or in charge, but that it’s about showing up, helping others and growing together. They learn that everyone deserves respect, kindness and a place to belong.
As we step into a new year, perhaps our resolution can be less about perfection and more about connection. We can choose to invest in communities that nurture growth, acceptance and hope. We can choose to lead with kindness, give people grace and love others for exactly who they are.
In 4-H, we see every day what happens when youths and adults come together with those values in mind. It’s a reminder that when we belong to a community rooted in care and acceptance, we don’t just grow individually – we get to grow stronger together for our community, our country and our world.
And that may be the most meaningful resolution of all.
If you are interested in joining 4-H as a member, volunteer or supporter, please reach out to me at afountain@lpcgov.org or 382-6460.
Angela Fountain is the La Plata County 4-H youths development agent.
