Thank you for publishing “How to Grow a Marriage” (Herald, Feb. 14) and highlighting it as the front page Friday feature.
It’s a delightful piece steeped in wisdom and so much more enjoyable to read than divisive national politics.
I pulled together the insights into a “Top 10” list and thought your readers might appreciate it as well:
Top 10 Marriage Principles from Durango Couples Married 50+ Years:
10. Be generous with compliments, affection and laughter.
9. Forgive imperfections and let the little annoyances go.
8. Respect each other’s opinions, even when you see things differently.
7. Communicate honestly without cruelty – seek common goals, not victory.
6. Stay flexible, open-minded and free of judgment.
5. Find shared values and commit to respecting them.
4. Support your partner’s dreams and help bring them to life.
3. Make space regularly for love, adventure and moments of joy.
2. Keep your health and your marriage a priority, especially after kids arrive.
1. Cherish your bond with awe and reverence – never stop growing together in gratitude, wisdom and compassion.
I bet many readers would love to see more highlights of wise locals like this!
Bob Ewing
Durango
