Have you ever noticed how often we feel the need to justify eating a treat? Recently at a salon, I watched each person approach a box of doughnuts at the counter, saying things like “It’s Friday, I’m having this” or “I’ve eaten healthy all week” as they carefully chose the doughnut.
These verbal justifications reveal a deeper issue: many of us wrestle with guilt or shame about food choices, viewing some foods as “bad” or even worse viewing ourselves as “bad” for enjoying them. But this guilt cycle doesn’t support health in the long run.
True wellness isn’t about perfection or rigid intensity; it’s about consistent habits that you can sustain over each season of your life.
When we try to “eat healthy,” many of us go all in – cutting out sugar, and our favorite foods overnight. But this extreme approach rarely lasts. A more balanced strategy focuses on consistency and healthier choices: making mostly nourishing choices while allowing yourself occasional treats without shame.
Instead of doughnuts or pastries:
- Whole-grain banana or pumpkin muffins with less added sugar
- Energy bites made with oats, nut butter, dark chocolate chips, and currants or dates
Instead of candy bars:
- Dark chocolate (70% or higher) squares
- Homemade trail mix with nuts, seeds and a few dark chocolate chips
Instead of ice cream:
- Frozen yogurt with fruit
- Banana “nice cream” (blend frozen bananas with a splash of milk or nut milk) and cocoa powder
Instead of sugary coffee drinks:
- Cold brew or hot coffee with a splash of milk and cinnamon
- Homemade latte with unsweetened almond milk and a touch of honey or maple syrup
Instead of soda:
- Sparkling water with a squeeze of citrus or splash of 100% juice
- Unsweetened iced green tea with fresh mint
Instead of store-bought baked goods:
- Homemade cookies sweetened with honey using whole-grain flour. Use half the amount of sugar a recipe calls for will help and not be noticed. Try it!
- Almond flour or oat flour blondies with maple syrup or honey
When you choose to include a sweet treat, consider these strategies to help your body manage it better – and to support your overall health goals:
- Have your treat after a balanced meal. Eating sweets right after a meal rich in fiber, protein, and healthy fats helps slow the glucose response and reduce blood sugar spikes.
- Reduce carbohydrates in the meal. If you plan on dessert, focus the meal itself on non-starchy vegetables and lean protein to help moderate overall carbohydrate load.
- Take a walk afterward. Light movement after eating helps improve glucose uptake and supports digestion.
- When possible, choose sweeteners that are more natural or have a lower glucose response. Replace sugar with honey, or maple syrup. Be cautious with low-calorie sweeteners such as stevia in bulk powder form – often it contains additives like erythritol or dextrose that can cause digestive upset in larger amounts.
If you find yourself feeling the need to justify a treat, pause and remind yourself that one doughnut doesn’t define your health, but consistency in your healthy choices matters more than any single choice.
If you’re feeling uncertain or want more personalized guidance, consider reaching out for professional support. In the meantime, embrace small, sustainable changes, let go of the guilt around occasional treats and build habits that help you enjoy a balanced, healthy life where sweet treats or cheats don’t derail your health goals.
Fran Sutherlin, RD, MS is a local registered dietitian, specializing in using digestive wellness to prevent or manage chronic disease. She has a master’s degree in nutrition, is a personal health coach, speaker, and owner of Sustainable Nutrition. She can be reached at 970-444-2122 or fran@fransutherlin.com.
